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| Mon, 12-27-2004 - 4:51pm |
Me and my friend are having a disagreement and I need your help. My friend went to the doctor today and found out that she has a STD. She is not sure how she should tell him that she got the STD from him. I say call him and cuss him out and tell him not to call her anymore. What do you think?

She is not sure how she should tell him that she got the STD from him. I say call him and cuss him out and tell him not to call her anymore. What do you think?
She and "him", whoever he is, should have both been responsible to use protection.
Good luck to her!
As mad as YOU are at him, she has to deal with things in a mature fashion. The likelyhood that this guy knew he had something is not high, since women often show signs of infection whereas men don't. She needs to sit him down and tell him that she has been diagnosed with ___ infection and for him to see his doctor right away for treatment. There is no point to blame him, how certain are YOU that HE'S the one who gave it to HER??? Sometimes it can take a while for the infection to manifest and if she's had other partners in her life, it could be from any of them.
Now that this has happened, you should encourage her to be more vigilant with protection.