OMG! HIS WIFE CALLED ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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OMG! HIS WIFE CALLED ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Fri, 01-21-2005 - 10:57am

I AM WRITING IN BIG LETTERS BECAUSE I AM PISSED!! I WAS RIGHT! THIS GUY I WAS SEEING A FEW TIMES IN DECEMBER DID TURN OUT TO BE MARRIED: I WAS RIGHT!
I am so happy I dropped his A** when I noticed that something wasn't right. Something did not jive. I had no proof, but my gut feeling told me to run for the hills. She called me today because she found the phone bill. She already kicked him out because she had a gut feeling that he was cheating on her. She only called me today, to make sure her gut feeling was right. Now we are both satisfied. Such a sweet lady. Really nice. I had a long talk with her, explained everything and told her we never ever got physical in any way. I knew something wasn't right and kept him at bay.

Thank god, I did't sleep with this guy! What a scum bag!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Fri, 01-21-2005 - 11:02am
Sometimes our womanly instincts pay off, thank goodness.
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Fri, 01-21-2005 - 11:05am
And wouldnt you call in the same situation ??? Wow hun...I am sure your heart was in your throat at that moment. I had a similar thing happen awhile ago. It felt good to clear the air. At least this woman isnt in the dark about things now...thats such a horrible feeling the "unknown" - and feeling like you are "crazy" I am sure for you it feels good that you arent seeing the guy but also that you gave this woman peace of mind! Still I am sure you were shocked too.
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Fri, 01-21-2005 - 11:09am
I was totally shocked, but I feel sooo good with myself! I stuck to my gut feeling, I walked out in time, didn't let myself get buttered up and I can proudly say, that I still keep my reputation that I NEVER sleep with married men. I even can catch the liars!
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Fri, 01-21-2005 - 11:31am

Catherine:

You had me worried when I read the topic line because I thought you were talking about Ian. Thank God you're not. You handled the situation great, you should be proud of yourself. Always trust your gut -- it's usually trying to tell you something.

Donna

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Fri, 01-21-2005 - 11:42am
I knew after I posted that, that you would be thinking that! Thank god that won't happen. At least I hope not! Well, I would know it was the X wife, not THE WIFE. BIG DIFFERENCE. LOL
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Fri, 01-21-2005 - 12:01pm

Catherine:

"I knew after I posted that, that you would be thinking that!"

Oh my God, we even think alike. This is scary! I'm sooo glad it's not Ian. And lets hope his ex never calls you. We don't like surprise calls or visits from exes, right!

Donna

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Fri, 01-21-2005 - 12:03pm
Well, I am awfully glad he got caught, and glad YOU caught on to HIM!
Becky

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Fri, 01-21-2005 - 12:13pm

I'm glad your instincts were good about this guy and you never slept with him. That would have been very uncomfortable for you if things had gotten more serious with this guy. It probably made things a little easier for his wife too. I mean, she knows he's a cheater..but, it's better to hear that he got shot down by you.

Glad the wife was reasonable with you and not a psycho. She just wanted to get to the bottom of things and accepted your side of the story. I feel so bad for her. She probably had other calls to make. I hope the jerk wad never contacts you again.

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Fri, 01-21-2005 - 1:46pm
You did great on that one. Wow - what a start you must have had on that phone!!
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Sun, 01-23-2005 - 2:09pm

You are sooo lucky to have followed that instinct. I didn't and I did sleep with a guy who was married, who lied to me and said that he was separated. I only saw him a few times and then I moved- was in the process of moving to my hometown. It wasn't until after I moved that a friend of mine found out that he WAS still married, and told me right away. I never talked to the guy again, but two years later his MISTRESS phoned me- yep, the mistress NOT the wife LOL!!!

She wanted me to stay out of his life, and give her back hers, blah blah blah. I was like, "uh, I haven't seen or spoken to *** since I moved 2 years ago!" Guess it was some other girl he had on the side...

I did eventually talk to his wife, she asked me a few questions and that was all. I told her I was really sorry, that he had said that they were separated and that I had been sucked in cause I was a newly single mom at the time and was hearing all the *right* things from a man. She totally understood, and thanked me, and that was it.

Alison

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