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| Wed, 09-14-2005 - 7:32pm |
Okay - a month or so ago I posted the story about the kitchen cabinet design guy. He was really into me. Complimented me, etc. Came back a few times to get the design just right. Then he mentioned how he got married at a young age and had to change careers because of his kids. Okay - whatever. I posted all of this and said the attention was nice but I guess I assumed he is still married. Although no ring.
But tonight he was here with his son to unload the cabinets in my garage. He eluded to the fact he is divorced by talking about "his son's house". He also mentioned he is buying a new house - wants to live in my county (his current county is very close). He also asked me how many kids I have and what age. He was a little nervous and he and his son were bantering back and forth and showing off in a fun way. His son was teasing him because he is 39. He has one son who is 15 and one daughter who is 18.
He was sweet and full of compliments. He even liked my glasses.
But oh dear - I look like a TRAIN WRECK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I did a boot camp today at noon - like lifting weights, running hills, running around a park, doing abs, etc. - meaning SWEATING A LOT!! When I came home I pulled off my running bra and put on an old racing tee shirt and running shorts (okay - so now read braless). My hair is totally yukky - flat on top and in this stupid turned up pony tail with frazzles coming out everywhere. No perfume. I am wearing glasses and no make up. Bare feet.
But he still smiled and gave me the latin goodbye - that is the touch of cheeks.
I will keep you posted.

OMG!
OOOOOOO someone's got a crush on Judy!!! LOL! That's so awesome!
So you'll have to totally keep us posted on events for this one! If he can call you beautiful when you're in your sweats, great! You should give him the hint that you'd be interested in a date, maybe joke about going out to celebrate when the job is done and see if he bites. I'm sure his son is razzing him even more at home now too!
Good job!
Alison
Thanks Alison and Jennie!!
I am scared!! I guess this makes me realize that I have been safe in my single parent convent for too long. I am not sure if I like him - it is one of those "could be" things - so will see. I am also not sure if he is newly divorced and just looking for action. And I am not sure if we would have anything in common. But the idea is to go on a date, make it fun, keep it casual and see what happens, right?
He is definitely going to be back to help my remodeler with the diagram for the trim and I might need all new counter tops - he is going to get me a quote on those. Plus he will want to see how it turns out. I had the feeling that he wants to get his part of my kitchen done and make sure I am happy with it before he does anything else. He does have my phone number.
I think I mentioned that this all started when I fell in love with this stove online that is from France and then bought it!! And it has had a domino effect - I had to install gas and get all new cabinets. My kitchen is upside down and I have a babysitter that is not working out - what have I done? OMG!!
Of course I will keep you updated - you have to help me with this!!