Do you prefer?

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Do you prefer?
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Sun, 10-16-2005 - 12:18am

For your partner, do you find you like...

Tall or short?

Blond, dark, redhead?

Blue, green or brown eyes?

Thin, regular, muscular, chubby?

Do you find that your taste has changed from when you were younger?

Do you prefer sense of humour or good in bed?

A romantic or an intellectual?

Alison, mom to Nicolas

Edited 10/16/2005 12:20 am ET by cl-alison




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Registered: 10-07-2005
In reply to: cl_alison
Sun, 10-16-2005 - 12:27am

For your partner, do you find you like...

Tall or short? I prefer tall, since I'm only 5'3'', that's not hard to find :)

Blond, dark, redhead? Dark

Blue, green or brown eyes? Brown or green. J is the only guy I've ever known with green the same colour as me!

Thin, regular, muscular, chubby? Gotta have meat on them bones!

Do you find that your taste has changed from when you were younger? I used to like tall blond and thin...

Do you prefer sense of humour or good in bed? Well, I guess being good in bed CAN be taught ;) but a good sense of humour cannot, so I'll go with humour.

A romantic or an intellectual? I love intellects, but I'm a SUCKER for romance! J *claims* he's not romantic, but HE SOOOOO IS!

Alison, mom to Nicolas


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In reply to: cl_alison
Sun, 10-16-2005 - 12:31am

Tall or short?

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Sun, 10-16-2005 - 12:37am

Can being good in bed be taught?

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Sun, 10-16-2005 - 11:39am

Tall or short? It doesnt matter

Blond, dark, redhead? It seems women change hair color all the time lol

Blue, green or brown eyes? Who know with those color contacts.

Thin, regular, muscular, chubby? It is more about the person than the build.

Do you find that your taste has changed from when you were younger? Very much

Do you prefer sense of humour or good in bed? Sense of humor

A romantic or an intellectual? Intellectual I like to be romantic

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Registered: 10-07-2005
In reply to: cl_alison
Sun, 10-16-2005 - 12:38pm

Well, in my experiences it can be taught- at least to the point where I have guided my guy to do what I enjoy and that makes for a good romp!


J was with a woman for 3 years that didn't let him really touch her, they'd have sex and that's about it.


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In reply to: cl_alison
Sun, 10-16-2005 - 5:24pm
Tall
Dark
Blue or green eyes
Muscular/fit
No - my taste has not really changed that much.
Good sense of humor.
Intellectual.
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In reply to: cl_alison
Mon, 10-17-2005 - 12:14am

Well, I'm not sure that people are all that interested in what my preferences are. However, your post reminded me of something.

When I was using the internet to search marriage sites, they had just started using those scientific tests to tell you about yourself or to pick your perfect match. I took tests on at least 3 different sites and was matched with women that I just couldn't imagine being interested in me, and in whom I therefore had no interest.

Except for one test. I don't remember which site it was, but it was only given to me after I'd already taken 2 previous ones on that site and paid quite a bit of money.

It was supposed to show me the physical characteristics of the person that I was looking for - age, height, build, weight, hair color, etc.

I took it in about 1/4 the time that they said that it would take. The results came back and the first thing they told me was that because I took the test so fast, I had an unusual knowledge of what/who I was looking for. Then they gave me a list of the characteristics and showed a composite picture of my "perfect" match. I was amazed because I hadn't thought in that way before and because the picture was breathtaking. Not by coincidence, the woman that I am planning to visit this Christmas is almost a spitting image of that composite drawing from the test.

Michael

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Registered: 03-16-2004
In reply to: cl_alison
Mon, 10-17-2005 - 11:56am

Tall or short? either or -- just broke up with a guy that was my exact same height (5'5") now dating a guy that is 6'3"

Blond, dark, redhead? clean shaven :-) or blond or dark... no redheads! Sorry

Blue, green or brown eyes? I'm so not picky!! As long as they are capitivating and kind, I don't care what color they are.

Thin, regular, muscular, chubby? muscular and lean

Do you find that your taste has changed from when you were younger? no. My taste has always been very wide. I think it is more the personality disabled than what they actually look like that intrigues me.

Do you prefer sense of humour or good in bed? good in bed. sounds shallow, but ...

A romantic or an intellectual? no matter what he has to be intelligent. Not necessarily an intellectual, but being as dumb as a brick doesn't work. I love romance though...

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Registered: 09-26-2005
In reply to: cl_alison
Mon, 10-17-2005 - 1:04pm
I just want him to be a good kind hearted person, with a good sense of humor, who's good in bed. If he's not I can train, I've trained a few ex's lol. The rest is all negotiable.
My last ex was a George Costanza look alike,I got a lot of comments, you're too pretty for him, too tall;etc. but wow, he was fun ! We didn't work out, but we reamin great friends. I learned long ago, looks fade, what's in the heart is eternal.
The T Girl
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Registered: 05-05-2004
In reply to: cl_alison
Wed, 10-19-2005 - 2:58pm

Tall or short?
Tall

Blond, dark, redhead?
Doesn't matter.

Blue, green or brown eyes?
Blue. I notice a man's eyes before anything else. I'm a sucker for a pair of beatiful eys (especially if there blue).

Thin, regular, muscular, chubby?
Muscular

Do you find that your taste has changed from when you were younger?
I didn't date a lot when I was younger, so I did not have much experience. But I have learned from dating in my 30's to now.

Do you prefer sense of humour or good in bed?
Good in bed -- because I had bad, and I don't want to go back to that.

A romantic or an intellectual?
Romantic

Donna

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