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| Thu, 09-07-2006 - 10:41pm |
Well someone stole 100 dollars out of my purse at Wal-Mart last night. the store says I have to make a police report but I'm not doing that for a hundred bucks.
James called his dad after 13 years and he calls him. I contacted him 6 weeks ago and met him on Sunday and now..... James calls him and James didn't even know I have talked to his dad. He went to his dad's house in NC told a few lies and didn't even mention nothing about his kids. His dad didn;t tell him he talked to me but knew he was lying. He said it was a pleasant meeting and he was happy with it but James and Chelsea dont have any plans on returning to FL anytime soon. They are running with a credit card and that's it. neither one of them has money. My kids keep crying for him and I'm DONE!!! This time it's done.
I am filing contempt charges on monday. He didn't tell me he was leaving and he missed last weekend visitation and wednesday visitation. I am filing contempt of a court order and this is it. His mom knows he's took off and all she has to say is I talked to him today keep trying the phone mabe he'll answer. Angelina says I'm mad at my daddy he lied ot me and the worst part is remember they dropped off muffins on thursday well friday they stole his mom's car and she isn't doing anything about it because it's her son and they left, no phone call nothing.
I cant handle the crying and the head games, I can handle them but my children cant, so I'm warshing my hands of the whole scene and family I cant take it. I start work soon and I dont need all this drama, not anymore. Everything was getting better. How can you make up with your dad when you are a dead beat pos. UUUGGGHHHH!!!
Thought things were getting better only for life to slap me in the face once again.....
And I'm gonna try and up his child support since he was able to go away for weeks and months at atime. They've been gone a week now and he said they're having fun until the money runs out and all his dad said was you need to take care of your obligations and be happy with your life but while you are happy make sure the people around you are happy because if not life will be miserable and if he doesn't do this now he'll regret it when he's 50 and realize what he did was wrong and hate himself for it.

Awww...that sucks!
I think you should take the time to report the theft of the money to the police.
Flgirl, I agree with everything Alison says here. Hugs to you!! I know you will get all these little wrinkles smoothed out soon - it sounds very stressful now but you are strong and will prevail.
Keep us posted!! You have such beautiful kids!!
Thank you both... I am just putting it out of my head as much as possible. My 5 year old has gotten much better and no longer needs counseling. Her teacher says though she is a social butterfly she socializes too much and needs to learn to stop, in one sense it's bad and in another it's good because she has friends and he hasn't affected her in that aspect.
We have a cheerleading game tomorrow morning and she is all excited so cant wait to see her show off. She is so tall and thin I need to put her in ballet as well. But I want to put her in ballet and soccer and it'll be too much.
Thanks again, talk to you all later.
Document EVERYTHING! The court likes details. Record the dates of his no-show visitations in a notebook and comment about the kids reactions. Same goes with child support payments~if he's late...doesn't pay...pays short...document it!
Good luck~I know it isn't easy!!
Dani
Excellent point, Dani!