Overheard BF's Convo w/ his Friends Wife
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Overheard BF's Convo w/ his Friends Wife
| Wed, 11-08-2006 - 12:42pm |
Last night around 1130pm, my BF got a phone call (she called once b4 a while ago but we were watching a movie) so the convo didn't last long. But last night it sort of did, she greets him, "Hi Sweetie" I can somewhat hear what they are talking about and she says something about the g/f and he says, "Well, Um, she's sitting right next to me" - subject change - talking and talking. To me it doesn't sound like her husband knows she calls him? But I remember before we started dating he said something like "My friend would trust me naked in bed with his wife" and this happens to be that wife. The conversation ends with him saying, "Well, I have to cut you off" and she says, "Ok talk to you later, baby". To me that just doesn't seem appropriate - or maybe I am just being paranoid. I have never met this couple - nor know the background they have. I just think that's weird - it's not something I would do.

Well for right now it is just a phone conversation. I mean, some girls do use language like that. I wouldn't necessarily like it but I would let it go.
Now, if all of a sudden he is getting a lot of strange calls or pulling the disappearing act then I would have cause for alarm.
Maybe one day you could bring up the nature of their relationship if he mentions them again. Something to the effect of - wow - she holds you in the highest of confidence - have you always been close friends?
I'm not sure I'd like the way she acted, but I have to give your bf kudos for the way he behaved!
If he were trying to hide something, he'd have gone in another room, or let it go to voicemail so you couldn't hear the conversation. He also would have made up some other story about who it was, if he were guilty of any wrongdoing, in my opinion.
I have close friends in a couple, and if I call and the husband answers the phone, I chat with him. I don't call him honey or baby or anything but his name, but sometimes our conversations end up being fairly long.
I'm not saying this is that way, but it doesn't hurt to have another opinion, and I think at least right now it's innocent. Maybe she's just super friendly and calls everyone pet names? I've known some peopl (men and women) who seem to do that, but I can see now how it could be taken the wrong way if overheard.
Moody
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It is weird. I knew a guy like that. He was way too close with his best friend's wife. I mean, it was like a threesome.
I wouldn't be comfortable with that situation at all. He's probably not the right kind of guy for you.