Oh my gosh, my Saturday wine...
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Oh my gosh, my Saturday wine...
| Mon, 02-25-2008 - 10:03am |
did not bid well. I was so ill again after two glasses that I got sick and the worst headache for days.
| Mon, 02-25-2008 - 10:03am |
did not bid well. I was so ill again after two glasses that I got sick and the worst headache for days.
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Well, my X and I are similar to that.
Well, this is EXACTLY my point. I feel that one of the couples can't let go and so this is their way of constantly trying. So yes, definitely getting muddier of why I wouldn't be able to deal with it. To me
Oh know!!!
I think your understanding me wrong. I think it's good when there is a relationship with a X, but for me, just not a extremely tight one. I have a pretty good relationship with my X husband now, not sure what it would be like if we lived closer, but I do think that having too close of
You asked an open question can you explain that to me? so I took the time to
I think it probably does exist what you said - two people who are just able to get along and maintain a friendship after divorce thus minimizing the post divorce strain on the kids. But I think it is rare. What brought them together and brought the kids into the world is sometimes deep complex love that doesnt get tucked away all that easily. I suppose in situations where there wasnt this kind of love, the break is easier and the post relationship flows without as many hitches. But in cases like my parents, where there was deep love present, a cleaner break might have been a better option but it doesnt seem to have been considered. I mean, a cleaner break would have allowed my mother to heal, it would have cemented the idea to my brother and I that they were not getting back together and helped us accept new people in their lives, and it would have maybe even eased my Dad's guilt in his part of the divorce. I guess what I am trying to say is that parents that are still involved to a certain extent after divorce can in fact hold themselves back and confuse or stunt the childrens understanding of the situation IMO. Not always, but in my case certainly.
I dont think I could date a guy who was every day involved with his ex wife. I would feel a bit insecure about that over time I think but also, more importantly, I would question in my head whether that was the best for everyone involved.
Edited 2/25/2008 11:13 am ET by myprecioustwo
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