My gaydar does not work
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My gaydar does not work
| Tue, 02-26-2008 - 9:11am |
So I find out last night that my artist coworker, the one I send all my funny drunk texts to, is gay. Well, he just found out himself within the last 6 months.
I feel like.. WHY.... i guess it makes sense that he loves my sense of humor.... i know a couple other gay friends who just love my sense of humor... my goofyness and off the wall comments.... sigh.
Has this happened to you?
Loonybunny

Rosecolouredspecs
I think she means the guy she sent a text to saying lunchamigo was hot!
April
NO... not lunchamigo. (I hope not.) This is my other coworker who I told that I had the hots for lunchamigo (l'amigo is hot... so smooth and yet watches family feud and can be a little goofy).... and afterwards he said he'd keep my secret but has been teasing me ever since.... it's all in fun though.
I got a ton of good gossip last night when I hung out with a couple coworkers (not lunchamigo)... apparently there has been a ton of office romances that I knew nothing about... and I said, how did i miss out on all of that....
But it seems that the ones that i get along with the best turn out to be gay. Go figure.
Loonybunny
Has this happened to you?
Oh Loony-- more than you would believe!!
From age 15 till I was about 25 I found myself falling for a lot of men I thought were straight. I was attracted to the way they seemed to relate to me, like
Do you mean Lunchamigo?????
I don't know - can't remember liking a guy who turned out to be gay. But right now I seem to be just deleting and deleting on EH. Nixed ones with a beard, a boat captain who travels all the time and some wierdo into Kabballah. And another one who is looking for a subservient wife. None of them are gay - they are all just strange urchins - I guess I should post an amusing update!
Has this happened to you?
Yup.
>>Then I would wonder why, after say a year or so they never made a pass at me or anything, lol! I always found aout later-<<
I can relate to that, big time... over the years here at work... But it wasn't that I had a crush, just that i got along and laughed very well with someone... And would think, hmmm i wonder if he interested in becoming more than friends... i didn't make a pass, just maybe flirted a little... then would find out... like a year later... oh, he's gay.
But then they always turn into the best of friends.... someone I can really talk to and be honest with.... And get guy/dating advice, too.
And NO NOT LUNCHAMIGO... from all accounts he's NOT gay.. just maybe not interested in me. Give me a couple more parties, and i'm sure i'd totally make a fool out of myself... sigh... but for now it looks like we are still friends. He still comes in the office, we talk, make jokes, etc.
loonybunny