When should you call him??
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When should you call him??
| Fri, 02-29-2008 - 9:05am |
OK so being a bit eager on the prince. Hes away until the end of next week and I have a real urge to call him just to say hi. Ok so you are probably saying so just call already...yes but what i left out is that I sent a text saying the same thing yesterday and no reply. Do I risk seeming overly needy at this point? Hes the one that initiated all the calls to begin with...

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My opinion is... DON'T CALL!!!!
You've already sent the text and it didn't work, so just let it be. Let HIM be.
Do your own thing that YOU want to do, with your own life, and leave him out of it. If he is worth having (truly "into" you and wants to catch you- because you ARE a good catch)- then HE will make the effort to call and come after you. If he doesn't, it doesn't mean you're not worth chasing; it only means he isn't interested.
YOU are not interested in every male you see, do you? Women can't expect every male contact to roll all over for us, either. Nothing to be taken personally! It just IS, and that's just life!
Don't call. It could come across as clingy and desperate (and you're chasing him) rather than friendly or nice.
Find something that is YOUR PASSION and spend your energies participating in that!
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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ooohhhh I knew that was going to be the general response and I know its what Im supposed to do...its just a KILLER I swear...
M ~ who is sooooo impatient I always burn my mouth on fresh baked chocolate chip cookies :0)
Yup.
Step away from the phone.
Call your utility company and sit on hold.
Never thought of that one...LOL thank you!
I think knowing our history and how he always makes me feel better, especially after such a crap week. Now I just got work my lawyer is mailing out my certification today so that means psycho will get it tomorrow and be in a fowl mood by sunday when i pick up dd. I need to get a BIG dog to bring with me...one with a fetish for baby carrots ;0)
M
I am JUST as impatient, but I don't call either. Last night I got a call from a guy that wanted to know if I wanted to meet up with him tonight but he had to double check on something and said he would cement plans with me later in the evening. WELL, he didn't, so I wrote back, I made other plans for tomorrow, since ours were so tentative. Today he emailed (never responded to text or called back) and asked where I was going, I wrote back to him: "I didn't think my plans were his concern and if I
"I said I didn't think my plans were his concern and if I told him, I might have to kill him. That a date with him is slower then a snail in an S-car-go. Hehehe and that it might not just formulate afterall at that pace. Yes, maybe bitchy, but he'll come running to go out."
SPEW alert for pasta - LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This is hilarious!!
Just curious - are you meaning that a date with him is going to go slower than a snail by your preference? or that he is going too slow to ask you out? Wasn't sure and wanted to make sure I understood your good humor and lines.
this is indeed my fave:
"I said I didn't think my plans were his concern and if I told him, I might have to kill him."
yess... he's writing and writing and then he wanted more pictures of me to make sure I really was cute enough ( I GUESS, he didn't say it, but I got the impression) and I never sent him any, I just told him I uploaded new one's in my profile so he'll have to look there. I guess
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