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Thu, 03-06-2008 - 8:52am

All,


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Thu, 03-06-2008 - 9:57am
good to have an update from you! Glad you guys are going along smoothly and looking forward to moving in at some point.
I can definitely relate to liking the alone time and I live with my bf so it is hard to find that time with both of us at home a lot. He went to NYC last weekend for a trip and I missed him a lot but also liked the time to myself a bit. I bet he felt the same and I think it was even nicer to see him having had some time to ourselves.
I bet your bf doesnt leave stuff at your place because he wants to eliminate your place from existence altogether right? I mean he wants you to be at his place with him moved in doesnt he? By leaving stuff at your place he is silently agreeing to have separate places. I think that might be whats going on there. Just my hunch.
Take it from a girl who knows how horrible it can be to be stuck in the past, PLEASE PLEASE dont look at exes on facebook or myspace or whatever. It only brings you struggles and even though it is out there for everyone to see, it is so not worth your energy! Let the exes do what they must and concentrate on the here and now....
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Thu, 03-06-2008 - 12:37pm

I'm glad to see your update, dance!


What I felt when reading it was a sense of calm in you. It felt like you are in a place of feeling more secure within yourself and in your relationship. It is a good place to be- taking things easy and without pressure from one another :o)


So you came out here to the West coast, huh? Where about? I am on the Central Coast Ca. I like the way that you and Biker travel well together and overall just seem to gel. You know- the whole "leaving things at your place" thing- I think some people

~Pacific~
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Thu, 03-06-2008 - 9:53pm

Hi Citylife,


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Thu, 03-06-2008 - 9:58pm

Hi Pac,


Thanks for asking for the update. I did think about you