Please give advice for stopping this!
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| Fri, 03-07-2008 - 12:25pm |
I have wrote about situation with firefighter - well I told him today that I am not wanting to continue talking to him. When I point out how I am being taken advantage of, His response is that I am the one with problem - Good Christy to I hate Men Christy - I really don't think that is the issue. I have noticed that when I have my thumb on a piece of crap in the OLD world, they squirm and use any excuse to put the blame on you if you point out what they are doing wrong or if things don't add up!
I don't like liars and anyone with 15 - 20 women on their myspace and claim they are all "friend"s - I am not buying that ticket to the zoo! GRRR,!!!!
Now, my ivillage pals..I need to learn how to stop feeling like I need to "fix" these situations when they are hopeless
Lord give me the strength to kick this idiot to the curb once and for all!
~~ Christy ~~
Mommy to ds 2 years old!
www.youravon.com/christinekennedy

Put on your best CatWoman boots and kick away!!!
If a certain relationship is not right for you, then it's not right for you. Same goes for the men... and the result is that you want closure/explanation for its ending. But no one should waste time or energy BLAMING the other for it not working, but to just accept that it doesn't work and move on. Even if the "not working" part is just the other person having a change of heart (or another prospect on the line)... because no one should try to force anyone into staying, nor should anyone have to CONVINCE someone into remaining a partner!
So if you feel like you want out, then just get out. It doesn't matter how he reacts to it, if he is going to try to turn it around on you like that. THAT isn't the kind of man you want anyway- so Kick Away!!!!!! His reaction to you is proof enough that you are making the right decision.
~shrimpy
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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Thanks, I needed the "pat" on the back!
NEXT!!!
His response is that I am the one with problem - 'Good' Christy to 'I hate Men' Christy
So, it sounds like he's saying that you suddenly switch from being accommodating to being demanding?