Our first day

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Our first day
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Mon, 05-26-2008 - 8:11pm

Okay -so today was our first "day" together.

The original plans were for him to pick me up at 10A. But the waverunner had a technical problem and so we opted for the beach. There is one south of here that we can take the dogs to and while we are at it we can check out the waverunner dock because that is a fun place to go with the waverunner - so even if the weather is bad it is a fun drive.

And we got there quickly and found a good spot. We had fun walking the dogs in the water and talking and sat a couple of hours and then went to check out the marina. We also ate a light lunch that I had packed - he really liked it and thought it was thoughtful of me.

We took a tour of the area and got to see the marina - he liked it and so we said when it is working that is one of the places we can go.

Then we went to an early dinner - he said no way am I going to cook! He got major brownie points for that. And I think he was impressed at how fast I could put myself together from being at the beach to going to dinner. Although we decided I have to cook his favorite dish in the whole world which is Fettucini Alfredo - he wants a fat-free version of that - because he really watches his weight and knows he can't have the real one. We shared a huge salad and a thin pizza. And he says that if I love that place there is another with pasta from the same owner that he wants to take me.

And he asked if I had fun today and I said yes. And so he will talk to me during the week. I did explain that DS is going with his dad on Friday just so he knows that ahead of time. He was asking if that is the last weekend before my trip and I said yes.

So it is all good - in a way a building block - with more to come. I did get a very hot kiss!! LOL!!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-15-2008
In reply to: cl_west1745
Mon, 05-26-2008 - 8:27pm

AWESOME!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: cl_west1745
Mon, 05-26-2008 - 8:31pm

Oh wow - I like that you work well with him.

Hopefully his DD's party won't be as stressful as yours! Does he have an okay situation with his exw?

That is too funny that your kids are both graduating within weeks of each other!

How did you meet him?

And thanks for your kind words!

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-15-2008
In reply to: cl_west1745
Mon, 05-26-2008 - 8:52pm

I've

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: cl_west1745
Mon, 05-26-2008 - 9:04pm

Wow - what a nice story - and one you surely deserve after all the stuff your exh put you through. HUGS!!

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Registered: 02-15-2008
In reply to: cl_west1745
Mon, 05-26-2008 - 9:22pm

Thank you!!

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Registered: 12-06-1998
In reply to: cl_west1745
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 6:49am
Hmm you should be able to cook a low fat version of alfredo with light evaporated milk .... Oh here ya go http://www.verybestbaking.com/recipes/detail.aspx?ID=27919 If you use the low fat milk & low fat cheese should be ok (ok won't taste quite as nice ;o)
He sounds like a lovely man, & you have so much in common :o)

 



Tracy

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Registered: 08-08-2007
In reply to: cl_west1745
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 9:14am

I love the update! Karateman sounds really great. The outside fun sounds perfect, at the beach. it was sweet that he suggested going to dinner instead of cooking!


I love the "hot kiss" thing....yay for you girl!! There's nothing like those sparks :o)


It's nice that you have this coming weeked free and how you guys can spend some nice solo time together. I'm so happy

~Pacific~
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Registered: 10-30-2004
In reply to: cl_west1745
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 9:31am
ITA!!!!!!!!
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Registered: 05-05-2008
In reply to: cl_west1745
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 9:54am

That sounds so awesome.. What a great time. :)


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Registered: 06-04-2004
In reply to: cl_west1745
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 10:24am
I'm glad you guys had a great time, Judy!!! I hope it continues!

~shrimpy


It's never too late to live happily ever after, and always be grateful for those who make our souls blossom.

~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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