I'm done....

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2005
I'm done....
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Tue, 05-27-2008 - 12:20pm

I think I’m throwing in the towel….for now anyway.


Cat
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Registered: 08-08-2007
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 12:28pm

Hey girl-


Dating, not dating, fishing or just plain out of commission- anything goes here! We love just having you here. I'm glad you are in a secure and happy place just being you right now


~Pacific~
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2005
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 12:50pm

I wish I could say I was happy but I’m miserable right now.

Cat
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Registered: 08-08-2007
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 1:13pm

((((Cat)))))


I wish I had some wonderful advice or words of wisdom. I only have a hug and to tell you that I am sorry you are hurting. I know Bikergiy cares for you, but that you just are tow different people in the communication department. Do you have the feeling that if you let him back in, he would be the same? I know he has had an A-ha moment or two knowing you were dating again. Do yo uthink that is enough

~Pacific~
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Registered: 03-11-2004
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 1:16pm

Hey Cat,


Sorry youre feeling down. You know maybe its best for now that you do step back. Focus on just you and not your expectations of Biker. I dated this really dreamy mcsteamy guy for about 3 years on and off but I knew how bad he was for me. Everything that you say you want from biker almost mirror what i wanted from my hotpants but i knew in my heart i would never get it and he wasnt going to change for me no matter what. He loved the casual thing and i wanted so much more. In the end it was like ripping off a bandaid. Sometimes an open wound heals faster than slapping a new bandaid on..(gross i know but i think you get what im saying) Hang in there cat. Cheer up buttercup and go pamper yourself and splurge on a new pair of shoes (or a treat that you love...me chocolate chip icecream)


((((HUGS))))


M

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Registered: 11-03-2003
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 1:16pm

I think I was trying to forget him by moving on too fast and trying to find someone to fill the space but it’s not working for me.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2005
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 1:26pm

At this time, with Bikerguy, it's better to just accept that we will be nothing more than friends.

Cat