EH communication

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EH communication
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Sat, 05-31-2008 - 1:38am

Alright got another email from the 40 yr old... he lives in Maryland... so his nickname will be Maryland guy... Ugh, i'd hate to waste his time or my time to meet up and there's no chemistry.. but he did express interest in learning more about me and possibly meeting me here in richmond...


So i guess it's too late for me to respond tonight.. perhaps i'll respond tomorrow... or maybe i'll respond tonight.... after all we know i have no self control...LOL


Interesting enough, ALL my matches are very into their Christianity.... and have God in almost every answer... which is a good thing.... but i suppose not the kinds of guys i've been dating lately..... i hope they don't think i'm too.... how shall we put this nicely.... too unorthodox.... honestly, i'd love to meet a good spiritual leader.... one who guides me and teaches me without judgement...


going off on a tangent.. my ex (the abusive one) claimed to be very spiritual when i met him, but in the end berated me and tore me apart spiritually.... he was the opposite of what he preached... etc... so i'm still skeptical even if someone "sounds" religious... i certainly want to see it in his walk....


But i'm optimistic about Maryland Guy.... seems like a really nice guy....


Loonybunny

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Sat, 05-31-2008 - 5:05am

From my experience - and here, again I'm living in the Bible Belt so YMMV -

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Sat, 05-31-2008 - 7:40am
ITA on this whole post.
That was a great post soonee!!
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Sat, 05-31-2008 - 8:28am
Wow, excellent post Soonee and totally true I've found!
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Sat, 05-31-2008 - 11:52am

"Interesting enough, ALL my matches are very into their Christianity.... and have God in almost every answer..."


Well, that's the point of EHarmony- is to match you based on your criteria...so if you put that religion is very high on your list, they will match you only with other Christians.


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Sat, 05-31-2008 - 5:45pm

i suppose i did put it high on my list .... because i know the importance of dating someone with the same religion... ya just never know where someone is along that journey...


I'm not straight laced but i do have a strong faith... it's what keeps me

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Sat, 05-31-2008 - 6:20pm

So now i have 2 communications via fast track.... Maryland Guy who is 40 and now a 36 yr old close by who is into Real Estate...

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Sat, 05-31-2008 - 6:33pm

Loony - you are so funny with these comments - especially the part about the drunk dialing. It is great that you are getting such interest on EH!

Happy hunting - and keep us posted!