Canned beer guy update
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| Mon, 06-02-2008 - 2:31pm |
Well we had a good talk. Apparently he just thought I expected more out of him than he can give me. Which is NOT the case. He said it wasn't about the beer in a can at all that it just worried him that I am going to expect a different type of lifestyle than he can provide. I said WOAH DUDE hold up we are just dating! I am not trying to make you my next ex husband !(insert laughter) He thinks because of the money I make I live some sort of glam lifestyle. He is so mistaken. I spend the majority of my income on private care for Isaac so I do not have to institutionalize him. So I am not rolling in the dough. I have a simple house...simple furnishings and a simple life. So once we got that out of the way I think he calmed down. Well I know he did. We are going out this week. I work some seriously LONG hours this week so a nice out with him will be nice!

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So, are you going out for a couple of 'canned' beers?
Glad to hear that you got things straightened out!!
I hope you didnt find my question too nosey, but the institution comment caught my attention.
Wow - you have had a hard job - but look at what you have done on your own!
Glad to hear you calmed his fears!!
Do you have someone who can come to your house and help you? I don't know how you must manage all of that on your own.
Oh I do not mind sharing about my son at all. I do have staff that comes in the house to take care of him and help with his goals and I have staff for respite care which I NEED! trying to work full time...take care of the kids the house..cleaning etc and have me time is TRICKY. The insurance will only pay for 16 hours a week of respite and 4 hours a day of
OMG - you are a saint!! And a very dedicated mom. I cannot imagine what a journey with autism must be like - but no wonder you are celebrating potty training!!!!!
Is he able to attend any sort of classes? Or does most of his therapy and guidance have to be on one one?
Good thing you are a nurse - that must help a lot with knowing how to care for him and what to expect and how to work the system - although it doesn't make the work any less tiring.
How/when did you discover this? They can do a lot now with all of that but it certainly is a hard row to hoe. I don't think nearly enough credit is given to parents who have to deal with this - it is like the work and responsibilty of 10 kids. I am so glad you have some help - but who was in their right mind when they only assigned 16 hours - that is NOT ENOUGH!
I really admire your dedication to your son. I really can only imagine how huge your heart is and what a great mom you are.
I'm glad you cleared things up with the date. We'll look forward to updates. Canned Beer Guy might end up being his nick name here unless you come up with something else ;o)
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