Update on Mark

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Update on Mark
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Wed, 06-11-2008 - 6:00pm

It has been a low week.

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Registered: 10-30-2004
In reply to: mhash
Wed, 06-11-2008 - 6:07pm

Wow Mark, I'm sorry to hear that you're hearing issue is still causing you so much trouble.

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Registered: 05-06-2008
In reply to: mhash
Wed, 06-11-2008 - 6:16pm

Mark


I am sorry to hear about your low week.

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Wed, 06-11-2008 - 6:29pm

Thanks for the empathy-sympathy isysmoon.

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In reply to: mhash
Wed, 06-11-2008 - 6:32pm

Yah I agree on doing the kid date thing but what the heck.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
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Thu, 06-12-2008 - 2:38am
"Hefty"

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Registered: 03-15-2004
In reply to: mhash
Thu, 06-12-2008 - 2:40am

SO sorry about the continuing tinnitus. UGH!

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Thu, 06-12-2008 - 2:41am
Ooops, not that you have "issues", lol.

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Thu, 06-12-2008 - 2:52am

Ok Ok Ok... 10 lb... my poor guess... she's 5'2" so 10 lb is 20 lb for someone who is my height 5'8"... anyways .. since I have worked so hard to become trim I am aware of the other person's weight. I hope it works out with Debbie for I REALLY like her!

CNDG would look very hot if she lost 15-25 lb (I think she is 5'4"). But regardless I was hot for her for who she is and what she looks like now.

Mark





We're fools whether we dance or not, so we might as well dance. ~Japanese Proverb







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Registered: 03-15-2004
In reply to: mhash
Thu, 06-12-2008 - 3:17am

.... like how "hot" I'd look if i lost 40#! lol

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Thu, 06-12-2008 - 9:47am

Are you sure Ave was not talking about how you talk Rebecca?... as I duck out of the way when you swing....

And oh yeah, I forgot to mention that Debbie has braces too. But as I said to her, that her smile is part of her but her braces are temporary.

Here is what she emailed to me after I shared my Myspace blogs with her. I know she has trust issues so we'll see how this works out.

====== Debbie email to Mark ====

Now it is a matter of putting out our concerns and intentions to find out if it is possible to find what we're looking for with the other. I was actually somewhat relieved when I read your blogs, at least a part of me. At first looking at your myspace I thought 'look at all these friends this man has'. I felt fear. I feared you were moving from relationship to relationship never quite finding Ms.Perfection. I feared you were addicted to the blogging thing and online relationship venue. I thought of how, I wouldn't be able to trust a man with women friends.

Then I read your blogs. I guess I don't open up to many people. I tend to keep things intimate, one on one. I don't believe I'm clingy. I just am not comfortable admitting my struggles to the world. People judge without seeing the whole picture. People use their past experiences and tear apart what you say to come to a conclusion to who you are. So I found myself looking for clues and secrets to what the problems would be having a relationship with you. I found I am part of the problem wanting to place expectations on another.

I saw how you said you were written up or reprimanded in some fashion at work and I recalled you mentioning you lost jobs when you were young. This looked like a new reprimand so it concerned me. Not knowing what the issue you had was I looked into my history and past partners issues for evidence that this could be an ongoing or potential issue. I lost a couple of temp jobs, I think both times for being too aggressive in regards to pointing out a fault in the system, where I felt the way people interacted needed to be addressed. I learned to ignore and not try and fix things that are not my job to fix. Now if it doesnt affect me directly I am usually oblivious.

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