NEXT!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-10-2008
NEXT!
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Fri, 06-13-2008 - 1:29pm

So I had to NEXT stinky armpit guy. It wasn't a matter of his armpits stinking because he got that under control. It had to do with this..and you all can tell me if I am being silly or outrageous or what but...after dating for 6 weeks not ONCE...NOT ONE SINGLE TIME did he offer to pay the whole tab! It was ALWAYS half. And yes I can pay for myself but I felt like it said a lot about where we were going or not going if he was NEVER going to at LEAST offer. I mean at least offer! He was asking me out after the 2nd date so...OFFER. That is all I asked!

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-23-2006
In reply to: cutefont
Fri, 06-13-2008 - 1:39pm

I would next him too.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2005
In reply to: cutefont
Fri, 06-13-2008 - 1:40pm

No I don't think it was silly.

Cat
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2005
In reply to: cutefont
Fri, 06-13-2008 - 2:27pm

"this one tells me Ahead of time we are going to split the tab and sometimes HIS meal and drinks is more than mine so even half doesn't always seem fair!"


Um- what????


Ok, I get "dutch"- you pay for yours and I pay for mine, but HALF of the entire ticket????


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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-26-2005
In reply to: cutefont
Fri, 06-13-2008 - 4:07pm
Stinky armpits and cheap to boot, next!!!!!!!
The T Girl
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2008
In reply to: cutefont
Fri, 06-13-2008 - 6:33pm

I think you were smart to NEXT him.


I had a long term relationship with an electrical engineer who earned twice what I do but I had to pay for nearly everything since he got screwed in his divorce. That was the number reason I broke up with him.


Yep you can fall into a trap with a person like that.


Laurie

anonymous
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-14-2003
In reply to: cutefont
Sat, 06-14-2008 - 8:05pm
I would have said NEXT as well. Longer you were with him the worse he would have got about money.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: cutefont
Sat, 06-14-2008 - 8:07pm
Good call - next is right!