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| Sat, 06-14-2008 - 1:17pm |
Ok, the guy I have been dating, (i'll call him Seaman, he works on a boat). I have been seeing him for about a month now. When he goes away, and calls me or texts me, it seems to be all about "sex". How much he wants it, what hes gonna do to me..blah blah. I was confused and worried that he wants me just for a "sex partner". I don't want that, I want to be special, and ultimately be in a relationship, with a great guy.
I didn't want to ask him right out..if I am just a mattress toy for him. So I have been biting my lip and watching him close.
Anyway, his parents are visitng him right now at his place, and he texts me and asks me if I would like to come with ALL of them to a farmers market for the morning. !!!!
I am just so happy that he asked me to do something, (with his parents yet who i have never seen), that will absolutley have nothing to do with sex..LOL
He just might be a good guy afterall...!!!!

Well that's a relief!
How did the meeting his parents go?
Thanks for asking Alison,
I actually declined the invitation, I was too hesitant to meet his parents. But last night he phoned me and asked me to come for a barbe que and drinks with his mom and dad. This time I went and it was a lot of fun. I am really falling for this guy, I hope this lasts.
Tak
That is good that he wanted you to meet his parents. And I am glad you had a good time and all is well!!
Your initial post was of some concern - maybe you can make the suggestion that you spend some time doing fun activities outside of the bedroom? I don't blame you for feeling that way!!