I didnt get what i wanted...but

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Registered: 03-11-2004
I didnt get what i wanted...but
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Tue, 06-17-2008 - 12:10pm

I got a taste. CP was NOT arrested but he did go and pay his full back support yesterday so I should be getting a check soon (fingers crossed...it is throught he state though). So he shows up with no atty and my lawyer jumps to his feet and says now im annoyed...YIPPEE. I figure hes going for blood now. Not so much...we worked out a visitation schedule thats better for all of us (including my DD). For the summer hes still on his tuesday day only since he still has no car. I will continue to drive with him paying me $20 each week for gas - no pay -no go. When oct 16 hits he is to have her every other weekend (like normal people do it) and hes to pick up and drop off (his skank applied for a drivers license and i said i was fine with it). we alternate thanksgiving, i get christmas eve until christmas morn at 11 he picks her up and drives her home by 7pm christmas night. he gets fathers day (hes to provide transportation) I pretty much stuck all driving on him since he said they were getting a car. My atty and i both looked at him and said ok we shall see. Hey more power to them if they get one. He asked for two weeks for vacation and i said no 1. This was after i said we are going to disney in nov and he snaps back we are going for 2 weeks in december. OK all...lets pick it apart lie by lie...he mentioned he was getting married in a month and my atty said wow thats been a long month..shes really been holding out huh...LOL almost peed a little on that one. so lets run it down...


1. Wedding – ummm that’s been happening for 3 months now


2. Disney 2 weeks

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Tue, 06-17-2008 - 12:26pm

Well, I'm glad that you got most of what you went there accomplished and that he agreed without too much fuss.


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Registered: 09-11-2007
Tue, 06-17-2008 - 12:30pm

Phew – so THAT’S over!!!

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Tue, 06-17-2008 - 12:35pm

yes and she knows i was p/o'd. she was completely in the wrong but it was in the hall not in an earshot of the judge, my atty was present and the tbh looked like an idiot. My mom then asks my atty what happens if they continue to harrass me and he said i get a restraining order. He also told CP that TBH is NOT to come to court and he will request it if need be and as it is i have more on my side than he ever will.

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Registered: 05-06-2008
Tue, 06-17-2008 - 12:57pm

OMG!

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Tue, 06-17-2008 - 12:59pm

Hopefully the money will start flowing your way.

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Tue, 06-17-2008 - 1:00pm
I agree...and i got a good jab in at the tbh. i know in my heart cp is thinking the same thing...she was a really expensive stupid mistake!!!
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Registered: 09-11-2007
Tue, 06-17-2008 - 1:03pm

How cute is that going to be...ummm until she comes home and tries to show me what she learned and i panic shes going to break her neck...ugghhhhh


Yeah... we went through a LOOOONNNNNGGGGG phase of cartwheels in the living room during the gymnastic years.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Tue, 06-17-2008 - 1:05pm

I had to laugh at your "bus" comment

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Tue, 06-17-2008 - 1:11pm

thats a big he$$ yeah...I may be bruised battered worn down but FAR from broken. I wil freakin break them financially now. No attys fees...we'll see. And you know damn well they are not gonna get a car by oct so when it rolls around to then their is a clause in the agreement that it will go back to his summer schedule year round...tuesday day visits only. Im done letting them steam roll me...ive taken control of the wheel and im not stopping!


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Registered: 05-13-2005
Tue, 06-17-2008 - 1:31pm

Wow - what a morning you have had!! My nerves boiled to read the story. But I do think you have laid some good groundwork to move forward. I am happy he has to pay gas and then do his own driving. It is great you got the holidays ironed out - but better still that he has to pay for the back support owed plus now he has to pay for half of daycare.

I bet he and his GF do not make it to Oct. Just a hunch.

I bet you feel relieved to have these boundaries and rules in place. What is next? Or is this it for a bit?

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