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| Tue, 06-17-2008 - 1:55pm |
As I have said before I have had a on again relationship with a guy who is a big drinker. This was why I have kept the relationship casual. I just can not date someone who NEEDS to drink daily. Anyhow we talk dailey and text dailey. I get a text from him saying he was checking in with probation...yes he is on probation! For a DUI. Then I do not hear from him for a couple days which is odd odd odd. So my instinct is...He is in jail for probation violation why else would he not call or text right? Well guess what...HE IS IN JAIL for PROBATION VIOLATION! I got that lovely collect call from the jail!

I am so sorry that the man you have feelings for has a drinking problem.
"It just makes me mad and angry at times! "
Wouldn't that mean then that he's costing you more than it's worth to be friends with him?
So my understanding that alcoholism is a disease so to be mad at someone who has a disease does not make sense to me.
I am not blaming you for your anger for I would be as well.
I can relate to getting mad... especially about the desease excuse... my ex used the same thing... and i agree with you.... a normal person gets treatment for his desease... he doesn't just make excuses and expect