Long distance dating as a single mom

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Registered: 12-13-2007
Long distance dating as a single mom
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Fri, 08-29-2008 - 1:57pm

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Fri, 08-29-2008 - 3:16pm

I believe we all have the answers and wisdom for ourselves.

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Registered: 07-15-2008
Fri, 08-29-2008 - 3:22pm

I did an LDR thing and it was nearly impossible.

JH

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Fri, 08-29-2008 - 4:00pm

Well, my answer will be a bit different than Mark and Tiara, but in the end the result may feel the same.

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Fri, 08-29-2008 - 7:17pm

Hi Gal_lalala, welcome to our board.


You've had some great responses, and I'm sure they have validated everything you've felt.


Photobucket
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Registered: 10-07-2005
Tue, 09-02-2008 - 11:29pm
Gal- any update for us?
The boy

Photobucket
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Registered: 12-13-2007
Wed, 09-03-2008 - 9:10am

Hello!


No updates yet.

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Wed, 09-03-2008 - 9:17am

Honestly I don't know how you've managed this long.

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Registered: 12-13-2007
Wed, 09-03-2008 - 10:40am

Isysmoon,


I know!

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Wed, 09-03-2008 - 10:49am

So from I read from your posts is that you are the one who is doing the accommodating. Plus you won't even get engaged (with a ring and a date) until you will continue to accommodate, i.e. move in with him.

You have painted a picture of a pattern of how you have decided to be with him. You accommodate. You change your life around him hoping he will commit.

Read back what you have posted here and you can decide if that is the type of relationship and life you want with him.

Mark

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Wed, 09-03-2008 - 10:57am

This is the point where I would be digging in my heels and requiring him to step up to the plate.

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