NC is back...having "the talk" tonight.

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Registered: 10-24-2006
NC is back...having "the talk" tonight.
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Tue, 09-02-2008 - 11:53am

SO NC was gone since last Mon, and he got back yesterday. I had left it with "you contact me if you like". So my cousin was kid-free, day off and wanted to hang out. We decided to order chinese and have some drinks after my kids went to bed. So before that, we took the kids for a walk and on our walk a cop car drives past, I look up and NC is waving and smiling from the drivers side, and I could see he had an auxillary with him. I was happy to see him, but didn't expect him to drop by as I hadn't had an email or phone call from him all week. No problem. So we get back to the house, I get kids settled down, cousin runs out to grab the good stuff. I check msgs and NC called the house while we were on the walk. Simple msg "Hey it's D_____, I'm back, and at work. Night shift tonight. Give the office a call and ask to me patched through to my car if you want" so I called him back and we had a nice quick chat while he drove to a call. He said he'd thought a lot while he was away, thought a lot about me. I couldn't really 'read' him. Then he says "Are you busy tomorrow?" and I said no, thinking he was going to suggest we go out and he says "I'd like to drop by. And have a talk with you." and I said "Yup, tomorrow night is fine." then I said "if you're in the area patrolling drop in for a kiss hello" Which he did, and he seemed more like himself. But I'm still very much "OK....what's going to happen tonight?" I have a gut feeling its going to be either an "let's be exclusive, or we can't be together anymore" kind of talk. One way or the other... OH and he also gets the results today on the coke addicts blood work. If it comes back clean, NC is clean. *fingers crossed* I'll be OK with "I can't see you until the divorce is final" even tho I will miss the guy, we have a good time together. If its an "I can't be with you, I'm going back to my wife" kind of talk, I'll be floored, but better to know now than months down the road right?


Sorry my updates are always so long guys. I don't seem to know how to condense hahaha

 

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Registered: 03-15-2004

Dont apologize for long updates! Thats what we are here for!


I am hoping things go well ... its nervewracking though, Im sure! (((hugs)))

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Registered: 08-28-2008

Ooooh I'd be on pins and needles waiting for tonight! My fingers are crossed that the talks goes well. Its good that you already have a couple scenarios in mind as to how it might go. Let us know how it goes! I'll be wanting a report in the morning, lol!

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Registered: 10-30-2004

Wow, I missed what was going on with you and NC.

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Registered: 10-24-2006

What?! you mean you *aren't* keeping up, baited breath, pins & needles

 

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Registered: 10-30-2004

Thanks for the recap.