Kerplunk-maybe other shoe dropping?
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Kerplunk-maybe other shoe dropping?
| Fri, 09-05-2008 - 10:48am |
Thanks for all the nice messages below on my other post last night.
| Fri, 09-05-2008 - 10:48am |
Thanks for all the nice messages below on my other post last night.
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For the record, with SYB sometimes he stews but knows he is being ridiculous and he doesnt want to talk about it. He will actually say though " I am in a twist over nothing at all. Its totally me" and take his space. Then later he will tell me what was going on in his head which he was able to work out as being insecurities or unreasonable expectations or whatever. He works it out on his own and I have learned to let that happen and not push. The only problem I guess would be if the guy cant figure it out on his own and places the blame on you instead but doesnt talk about it....
HUGS> I remember feeling exactly how you feel. Sounds like he thought you were talking to some other guy on the phone to me. He needs to get past that immediate assumption when you arent available!
Honey, I'm going to be completely honest with you.
And you may very well be right.
I agree with Moon.
JH
JH
Thanks for all the replies.. no - nothing sounded harsh.
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