sent an email to MM

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Registered: 03-25-2002
sent an email to MM
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Tue, 09-09-2008 - 7:25pm

Okay.... i sent him an email today... remember i said he sent a lengthy one last friday that i never replied to because i was at work and busy. So.... i just went ahead and replied. with a friendly tone. and i thought a clever \

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Registered: 06-04-2004
Tue, 09-09-2008 - 7:40pm

How would that scare someone off??!?? Unless you edited out the part where you proposed in the email or something.


Stop second-guessing yourself, Loony!!!!! Just BE YOURSELF in whatever loony or non-loony ways you want to be- and if the guy doesn't like it, then he's just not the one for you! But stop trying to make yourself "fit" what you think he will want!


The email sounds perfectly harmless to me; not sure what you are worried about, with that "I hope I didn't scare him off" stuff.


~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Registered: 03-25-2002
Tue, 09-09-2008 - 9:59pm

I know.. i can be such a goob sometimes.


i was afraid of sounding "stalkerish" for some reason.


Yes, i'm crushing on the guy... poor thing.. LOL.


on the one hand i keep trying to read the signs and on the other, i need to just let him come to me... patience isn't easy for me. He is signed up for saturday.. so i guess that's when i'll see him next.


On other note, people in my group have asked about another Karaoke meetup... so i put that on the calendar... i'm excited. MSMsavannah... you and your friends should come out!

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Registered: 03-25-2002
Wed, 09-10-2008 - 1:45am

yay, he replied... and even asked me a question related to an earlier email.... hmmm he's been paying attention. sorry if i'm overanalysing this guy... i guess i don't have much else going on... can we say obsessing LOL... and this may be why i'm second guessing myself. He seems like a decent guy for once and i worry about coming on too strong... or too little. d'oh. And not to mention emails are new territory to me.. But i feel like i'm getting the hang of it...


So, on the positive, chatting with this guy via email is earning me some good email experience. I'm also earning a new friend if nothing else... so that's all positive stuff.


but like is said the more i get to know him, the more i'm crushing on him, and i'm trying to balance my excitement so that i'm not disappointed.


AND my neck and shoulders are killing me lately.... ya know, how physical pain can put ya in a bad mood. sigh. i need to let go of some tension. actually, now that i think of it, i complained of a sore neck Saturday and MM tried to help me out by rubbing my neck.