Kissing on the first date isn't bad, if you WANTED that kiss- I've had guys try to kiss me and I'm just not feeling that way!
If you're both looking for a serious relationship and you're worried about him only wanting a hookup while saying that he wants serious, then you can take it slow with him and see if his actions are measuring up with his words.
If you're wanting a serious relationship and not just sex, then no sex until you've had the exclusive talk. Keep your dates out of the house so you feel less pressure to have sex.
I think a kiss is fine! That's me, and we all have our own "rules". But in my experience id you're feeling it..and the sparks are there, its just a nice way to really have a great ending to a date :o)
Don't worry about setting up expecatations. He's a grown man so he is mature enough to understand that kissing will be all you are doing until you are ready for more than that.
It's only going too far if it's outside your comfort zone.
Girl, I did.
He says he wants a serious relationship. But hey he could also just be trying to get laid. HAHAHAHA!!!!!
SOOO true!
Kissing on the first date isn't bad, if you WANTED that kiss- I've had guys try to kiss me and I'm just not feeling that way!
If you're both looking for a serious relationship and you're worried about him only wanting a hookup while saying that he wants serious, then you can take it slow with him and see if his actions are measuring up with his words.
If you're wanting a serious relationship and not just sex, then no sex until you've had the exclusive talk. Keep your dates out of the house so you feel less pressure to have sex.
And by the way, 3 yrs is nothing :)
I think a kiss is fine! That's me, and we all have our own "rules". But in my experience id you're feeling it..and the sparks are there, its just a nice way to really have a great ending to a date :o)
Don't worry about setting up expecatations. He's a grown man so he is mature enough to understand that kissing will be all you are doing until you are ready for more than that.
Enjoy the sparks!!
Great! And now you are OBLIGATED to get back here and post your update lol!!! We'll be waiting ;o)