So...is THIS what OLD is all about?

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Registered: 06-27-2007
So...is THIS what OLD is all about?
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Thu, 11-13-2008 - 10:14am

So, I put up a profile on Match.com and have gotten some hits.

 


 

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Registered: 11-20-2007
Thu, 11-13-2008 - 10:25am

That guy is a dick. Pure and true. I would cancel that date too because NO woman will EVER be good enough for Mr. Not to sound cocky.


Not all the men online are like that though. It's just a process of weeding through the idiots to find the good guys. Remember, You have the power to choose who does and does not get your time. These men need to impress you and not the other way around. Keep your chin up - You are beautiful and worthwhile and it just takes some time to find a man who realizes that.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 11-13-2008 - 10:48am

Ummmmm ok????

 
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-19-2008
Thu, 11-13-2008 - 10:50am

Good for you for cancelling - I wouldn't bother with a guy like that.

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Thu, 11-13-2008 - 10:53am

I would immediately next Mr. Cocky Bragger.

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Thu, 11-13-2008 - 11:08am

They're not all like that :)

I would cancel the date and just for a blow to his ego, in the email I'd say that I was looking to pursue something with another man I had been in contact with... LOLOLOLOL!

Winter Alison

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Registered: 11-20-2007
Thu, 11-13-2008 - 11:50am
Or you could meet him and after about 5 minutes get up to leave and say "I'm sorry but you just aren't meeting my expectations."
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Registered: 06-27-2007
Thu, 11-13-2008 - 11:59am

Thanks for the support, ladies.

 


 

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Thu, 11-13-2008 - 12:21pm
OUCH!

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Thu, 11-13-2008 - 12:22pm
He sounds like a narcisist.
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Registered: 09-26-2005
Thu, 11-13-2008 - 12:23pm

EEWWWWW!


That's the OLD guy you want to run fast away from! Don't feel guilty about wanting to prove him wrong, it was your ego reacting, which is understandable, it's like a knee-jerk reaction. I personally would want to bi--- slap him and hope he gains 100lbs and looses all his hair. :-)


You are way too good for the likes of him! and he is still single for a reason! I do feel sorry for the poor woman who has the misfortune to hook up with him though! She will have self esteem issues(only type he can get), and he will abuse the living heck out of her, he has a superiority complex, he's probably the type that gets his jollies off by puting others down.


Unfortunately, in the NY area at least those types are about 97% of what's out there, that why I gave up on OLD. In your area there may be decent guys.


Bottom Line: You have to have supper, dupper industrial strength thick skin to do OLD, otherwise you will end up getting your feelings hurt constantly, OLD is not for everyone.


Consider strongly why you let an ass wipe like that get to you.

The T Girl
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