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In reply to: wyldkat70
Mon, 11-17-2008 - 11:11am

Welcome! I'm in South East Michigan, so not too too far from you. Did you get any of the snow we got here yesterday?


That guy sounds like a fool. My df and I lived 2 hours apart for the first year and a half of our relationship and now we live together and are

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In reply to: wyldkat70
Mon, 11-17-2008 - 11:18am
Welcome aboard!!!! Sorry to hear about the jerk. Just curious, was this the first weekend that you both were intimate? Seems like a normal OLD behavior when the guy got what he wanted. Sorry so curious...
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In reply to: wyldkat70
Mon, 11-17-2008 - 11:19am

Hi Sue,

Welcome to the board!

I think he WAS interested, but has lost interest for whatever reason... and instead of trying to force himself to feel something more for you, he's being honest. He could've just ghosted on you and said nothing, so be thankful for his honesty.

Get back out there and enjoy yourself, he's not the one and you can go forward to the one who is.

Winter Alison

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In reply to: wyldkat70
Mon, 11-17-2008 - 11:22am


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Mon, 11-17-2008 - 11:37am


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In reply to: wyldkat70
Mon, 11-17-2008 - 11:41am

Hi Alison, and thanks for the welcome! Its a great board you all have here!


Yes, I think that


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In reply to: wyldkat70
Mon, 11-17-2008 - 11:41am
We got about the same. The roads were awful this morning though! It looks like nothing was done because the roads were all ice.
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In reply to: wyldkat70
Mon, 11-17-2008 - 11:43am


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In reply to: wyldkat70
Mon, 11-17-2008 - 11:58am

Well, if you have a casual look at sex, your not going to get Mr. Right. Don't get me wrong, I do too, I just don't admit it. The only one I admit something like that too is my FWB. It is NO one elses business. I NEVER EVER discusss sex with someone from OLD. Not on instant messenger not per email or phone. If someone asks me, I tell them I find that to be an intimate question that is not the appropriate time to discuss. That should a relationship develop, they'll find out if I'm into sex/like sex or not. Once they get curious, I know that is the reason. It's NO ONE's business. Keep that to yourself, or you'll find yourself lonely for a long time, because men will only date you for that and anyone worth being with, will stay clear from you.

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In reply to: wyldkat70
Mon, 11-17-2008 - 1:39pm

You have a casual view on sex, but maybe he doesn't? He could've been scared to think that you wouldn't take this as serious as he would, so he's backing out before he gets hurt.

Plus the baggage of having the ex fiancee want him to put his kids on the back burner- that's hard to deal with, even if the new person swears up and down it won't be that way.

Next!

Winter Alison

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