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| Wed, 11-19-2008 - 11:28am |
Hello All!
I have been lurking on this board for a while.
| Wed, 11-19-2008 - 11:28am |
Hello All!
I have been lurking on this board for a while.
Welcome to the board!
Thanks for your reply, Moon.
Hello!! Welcome again :o)
From what you have written about BL I get the picture of a successful, charismatic man who has been happy and feels safe in his bachelor roll. He seems to like you very much...and he threw out the disclaimer early "I'm not ready for serious...I put my son and business first). I agree with putting the children first, but the work thing is optional. Perhaps he is one of those guys who is very serious about his work. And that can be respectable but you have to know and accept that going in. That he will likely work through long hours and weekends and in the future chose work hours over couple time hours.
But you are right when you point out that actions speak louder. It is nice that he he showing you this attention and you seem to be moving forward. Maybe you are right, that women in the past have been too needy too fast so he pushed away. If he is gravitating towards you that is great. I suppose that my advice would be to keep your wits about you.. be cautious for a while, because he may very well be
Welcome!! So glad you decided to share with us!
Sounds great. But i think sometimes, OFTEN, actions mean more than words. I think with guys, sometimes DEFINING something, scares them. I dont see any reason you "need" a definition at this stage. Things are great & going along well. As always, i woudl caution you letting the kids get TOO comfy though. 3 months is still early in a relationship
Hi Pac Sun!
Thanks for the welcome cool cat!
Your concern has been mine, as well.