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| Fri, 11-21-2008 - 10:20am |
We have always said that it is better to let things go. Not to answer emails, texts, not to write long emails about our feelings, not to let them see you angry, sad or hurt. Never give the scum balls that we have dated in our past the satifaction!!
So, with my last post, I mentioned that I saw RF (the last guy I dated) on match.com again. That just PISSES me off. It riles me and it makes me want to say HATEFUL things to him. Immature, hateful things. SOOOOOO, I'm better then that. I don't want to give him the satisfaction, but I will here. So I am going to say what I'm dying to say to him.
Matter of fact, I think everyone who has pent up feelings for someone they want to really say something too, should say it today! Get it off your chest! Yell it on the board! Get it out, make yourself heard through us! I know you'll feel better, because I'm about too.
So here it goes:
RF,
I can't believe you would put yourself online again. You are such a slime ball and make other nice men look bad. Your profile is full of lies that I think you truly believe about yourself. Your a sad, insecure and weak man. Your issues make you pathetic and weak. You need serious couseling and damage control before you go out and lie to another woman. Not to mention, you need some serious self help books on how to really make love to anyone. I feel sorry for anyone that has to put up with your (NOT EVEN) bite me size!
Your just a *&%^&$%^$(&**&!@#$$%@!!!(*&^%$#@!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
AAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WHEW, I feel much better! Whose next.....

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mmmm Cat...not enough space on this board for me to write it all and im afraid my had would cramp before i was even 1/2 way done LOL and really...bite me size is so NOT worth your energy. But yeah it would burn me to find out he was back looking again after handing me a load of crap. Just imagine had you not gotten out when you did who knows what other BS he would have tried to feed you over time. And keep telling yourself one day you will enjoy the best guilt free dessert of your life...no added calories, no trans fat-heads, no lingering sugar substitute taste...just pure sweet indulgence! Its out there...this I know. I just havent found the right bakery yet...LOL
M
Perfect Timing Cat!
Aha, since i am going to court on Monday, this IS good timing!
Taz, You pathetic excuse for a man. You sucked me in, you made me think you were head over heels in love with me. That you'd "always take care of me". You made me think you were such a sensitive guy. You made me think you'd be such a great father. & little by little, you showed me your TRUE self. Do you have SOME good qualities? Yes, when they benifit YOU.
Over the years you manipulated me into beleieving that you were always the one who was "wronged". It took me many years of precious LIFE BEING SUCKED OUT OF ME, to realize that its YOU. Its wasnt me. It wasnt my "nagging".
Yah.. when I saw yours I thought oh hell this is gonna be a good one.. lemme go fill up my drink before I dive into this! Wow Rlch.. just wow.
So I'm sitting here thinking who do I feel like I need to speak my mind to? Heartbreaker? Nah.. I do believe he's a good person going through a major change in his life that I was in his life at a very unfortunate time. Medic? Lol no.. that whole situation has just become comical. Yes, I see the major issues that he has.. but I SEE them, and I'm happy that I do. I feel no need to shove anything down his throat.
Now.. my ex husband? Oh yah.. even though we have a great relationship I still have a lot of anger there so here we GO!!
Dear B,
I'm so glad that you have finally found what you were looking for. You've got your perfect little blonde wife, and your perfect little house on the golf course that looks like it was professionally decorated. You've got your beach weekends, your country club membership, your brand new SUV.. wow what a life. The sad part is that you were unable to build any of this on your own.
You had the opportunity to build
I'm just gonna steal your letter because I think WE MUST HAVE BEEN MARRIED TO THE SAME GUY!!!. Mine did all the same things...made me feel sorry for him, nothing was ever his fault, blaming me for nagging, drinking. I also felt like I had been sucked dry.
So thanks for doing the writing for me. It's been a very long day and I am tired. I owe you one!
Good post.
Dear Drummer Boy,
What happened to us wasn't fair. It wasn't fair for you to make me believe that we could actually be together when you had no intention of ever telling K that we were. I would have told J. Neither of them would have had anything to say. We were no longer with them long before we started again. It wasn't fair to have to hide from everyone. It wasn't fair for me to decide to move a state away. It wasn't fair for you to ask me to stay with nothing to offer me but more hiding and more lies. It wasn't fair that moving that state away made my pregnancy easier to hide from all the people you hid our relationship from.It wasn't fair that I had to go through my pregnancy alone. It wasn't fair that no-one was there with me when our daughter was born. It isn't fair that our beautiful, intelligent, funny little girl doesn't have a father that will claim her publicly- loving her in private has to be enough. It isn't fair that her sisters don't know her and likely never will. It isn't fair that A died and you blame yourself. It isn't fair that Natalia has to suffer for that- she was a newborn it wasn't her fault and it wasn't yours either. It isn't fair that K has that much control- that you feel you can't love your daughters with her if you love Natalia. One day she's gonna ask and it isn't fair that I don't have answers. I'm hoping you will.
My oldest DD's Dad was just like Rebeccas and my youngest DD was just like Trauma's.
Sad how many of our X's are so similiar. It just goes to show their are many of those scum out their. However, I know of plenty of women that are scummy too. So that gives me hope that their are enough great men and women that will eventually meet. I believe it's all evened out.
Anyway, I loved everyone's responses and we should just keep bumping it up on the days we feel we need to get something off our chest.
~Rebecca, Mom to Averey, 8 & Lotsa Labs!
Heres mine:
mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16
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