Took the plunge...
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Took the plunge...
| Tue, 11-25-2008 - 1:09am |
...and signed up at Plenty of Fish. So, originally I was just curious and wanted to see the caliber of available man. Of course you have to create an account which I half-a**ed. Anyhow, I kinda felt like I was shopping for men, lol (granted most items were clearance). I actually sent messages to a couple of military guys in Iraq; I know it sounds strange but the distance appeals to me. Is that weird?

What did you think of the guys on POF?
""Just because I'm single doesn't mean I'm desperate and just because I have a child doesn't mean I'm looking for a replacement Dad-she has one"."
I know that feeling! Unfortunately though, the second part of that statement isn't fully true: since at some point we hope that the guy we're with will join us and our children as a "family unit" and therefore be involved in our child's life as a role model not unlike a father/ mother figure. So those who can't do it are best to just say it up front that they can't do it and save everyone time.