I must be crazy
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| Thu, 11-27-2008 - 7:36pm |
...or at least like throwing my money away. So I am feeling a little confident with my new do and I just have this feeling that I am going to be in a relationship in 2009. So....against better judgement, I renewed my Match subscription. I am such a slacker online and have just handed them my money in the past. I should know better right? Well, one profile of a cute guy and I sign right up. At least I winked at him.
So ladies, help me not waste my money. I need to actively participate in reaching out and responding. Please feel free to nag, pester, coerce or whatever is needed to get me off my lazy butt.
I also heard from TL about his new relationship status. He had been communicating with both of us and met her the same weekend he called trying to meet me, which is for the best since I can't be so mobile and flexible for a long distance thing. It is not what I want. Funny thing though... turns out he took my brother's class and is friends with my other brother. Small world, huh!
Also, I signed up to be considered for the spotlight and it says I am in the spotlight. Anyone know what this means exactly. It said it would increase my views.
Edited 11/27/2008 7:42 pm ET by msmsavannah

Good for you!
I know what you mean. I have not had a lot of luck with on-line either, and just when I was ready to cancel, I had two interesting men approach me.
It IS exhausting, and when you think of it all you are doing is sitting in front of the computer, but I think you spend so much time thinking and second guessing yourself and wondering why some strangers (and I mean STRANGE) think you are great when they clearly haven't read your profile.
I totally rewrote my profile, changing it from what I was looking for and lists of things I like to something that was more like "here is what I am all about" focusing on personality traits and it seems to have helped.
I met BG on Match so I'm a big fan.