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| Mon, 12-01-2008 - 1:35am |
Hello all... hope you had a great thanksgiving wkend.
things are very good and reassuring with MM. i've noticed that i haven't had a negative update for some time now... that feels good. ok, so no major steps forward but just the little steps that make me smile.
we had a great date on saturday. jammed as much as we could into the little time that i have for going out... Ate dinner, went to a hockey game, watched a dvd at his house... no nakie time though. we sorta ran out of time. but he didn't make a move for it really... at least not an obvious one. we both expressed how it would have been nice if i could have stayed all night... oh well, there will be other opportunities. and maybe that's why i feel good about things.... feels like we are settling into a thing where i know i'll hear from him, know i'll go out on another date, etc. A lot less questioning about whether he likes me or not. And i kinda got the "you are welcome anytime to call, text, come over, whatever." cool huh.
he was out of town for thanksgiving visiting family but kept in steady contact. said he missed me when he got back. how sweet. his statement last week about "i hope you can tell by my actions blah blah" to me means he's an action guy and probably doesn't verbalize exactly how / what he's thinking feeling. so i've been reading his actions more than his words. which is the better thing to read anyway, right.
I'm seeing him monday for dinner. then going back to his place to watch our favorite show together... and of course nakie time. i'm also trying to get friday off so we can go to a mutual friends birthday. we'll see....
I've also called my mom.. inquiring when / if she's coming back. i miss the free babysitting and overnights. ya know. She said she's thinking about Jan or Feb. So that is what i told MM.. i'm hoping that if i give him some indication that i'll have more time to spend with him in the near future, that he will see there is potential for this thing we have to become more serious. I can't even believe i'm having "more serious" thoughts... he's a good guy though, and i'm taking things one day at a time. My gut feels good about things so far.
Loonybunny

How nice for you! Remember the mantra...no overthinking! Sounds like it is working so far!
Now, can I borrow your mom to take my kids for some overnights, too?