Is this weird??

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-16-2004
Is this weird??
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Wed, 12-03-2008 - 2:10am

My boyfriend

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Registered: 12-13-2007
In reply to: kiddo_as
Wed, 12-03-2008 - 10:11am

Wow, I would find that very weird.

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Registered: 12-16-2004
In reply to: kiddo_as
Wed, 12-03-2008 - 11:33am

His justification for it is that he's worried because she moved

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Registered: 03-15-2004
In reply to: kiddo_as
Wed, 12-03-2008 - 12:11pm

How long have you 2 been dating?


b/c if its been less than maybe 6-8 months, i see NO reason why you should be hanging out wiht each others kids. & maybe thats his reasoning for going elsewhere with them?


As for the relationship with his X's freind - it all seems very weird, almost juvenile, to me. I'd be wary.

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Registered: 12-16-2004
In reply to: kiddo_as
Wed, 12-03-2008 - 2:59pm

We've been together for just over

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Registered: 10-07-2005
In reply to: kiddo_as
Wed, 12-03-2008 - 4:13pm

"His justification for it is that he's worried because she moved


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Registered: 12-16-2004
In reply to: kiddo_as
Wed, 12-03-2008 - 5:23pm

My thoughts EXACTLY Alison!!

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Registered: 10-07-2005
In reply to: kiddo_as
Wed, 12-03-2008 - 5:33pm

Ok... honestly?


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Registered: 11-06-2008
In reply to: kiddo_as
Wed, 12-03-2008 - 11:17pm
You are pointing out a lot of things that weird for you. If you are that uncomfortable then maybe you should break it off with him. You are asking him for more time and guess what he is telling you slow down very politely I might add.
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Registered: 11-06-2008
In reply to: kiddo_as
Wed, 12-03-2008 - 11:22pm
As I have read a few post...why the heck are your kids involved after only 4 months...Good lord I have been dating someone for 18 months and I am no where near intoducing my kids!!!!! Anything less than a year kids should not be involved. I am so peeved when people get thier kids involved...do people know how awkward kids feel when this all happens and then it doesnt work...you have just introduced your kids to a new divorce all over again. 4 month.....yep your insecurities show.
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Registered: 11-06-2008
In reply to: kiddo_as
Thu, 12-04-2008 - 11:39am
Also as I have read more......seems like he is doing most of the thinking ( it was his idea for

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