well I did it

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-01-2007
well I did it
1
Tue, 12-09-2008 - 4:23pm

Decided that I would take the kids to NY over Christmas. And yeah, I know it was against a lot of you ladies advice.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-19-2008
Tue, 12-09-2008 - 9:52pm

I say that if you want to do it then do it. You don't have a set order with holidays and if you do you are not following it by splitting it with the ex anyway(if i remember correctly). I feel that the biggest thing that ppl on the board do agree with is the fact that your BF is so uncool about you talking about your ex. That just rings weird with posters. i understand if you mentioned him all the time but your not just outta the blue type situation. Caution my dear. Everyone has their own time line of when to introduce the kids. I respect that of all of us.


Hugs, Have a great holiday in NY enjoy the snow. I can only take it for about 3 days.


JL