right guy wrong time?
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| Mon, 12-15-2008 - 10:15am |
I want to know if any of you believe in the old "he's the right guy at the wrong time". I'll give you the situation if it will help....I meet a guy named E right after I seperated from my eh. I thought it was only going to be a date or 2 and then we be friends. Well it didn't turn out that way we dated for over a year. Then he got a job in CO and we just stopped seeing each other before he left. He wanted me to move out there with him but I didn't want to nor could I. i wasn't divorced yet and i couldn't move all the way out there not knowing anyone and have the kids that far away from family. Plus I had other plans for my life that involved going to school and such. Anyway, i still love him. I always have. He's really the 2nd man that I've every truely loved in my life, as in I will love you for the rest of my life because I love you love you regardless....make sence?
I also knew that i needed to not just date one person before settling down again. I made that mistake before. E and I are talking again and he might be transfering back to our home state or to TN(which is only 6hrs away)

Yes...I do think that fate sometimes sticks us with the right guy at the wrong time. Its seems cruel almost..you can sense who he is and he could be right for you, if only the timing was better.
I refer every now and then to someone I call Soulmate. He was my match on every level, and I truly believed we were made for each other. Unfortunatley, this was very early in my dating years and it was too much , too soon for my heart.
I often wonder about fate and why do we meet and fall in love with the right guy at the wrong time. Or why fate can be so cruel and take away someone so right for various reasons (travel, school, long distance, even death tragically sometimes).
Somwtimes you do get a second chance, like your friend who got back with her HSSH. I have an intersting story too...my aunt who is 71 years old just remarried my uncle. They had divorced 30 years ago! They literally ran into each other a year ago and started talking again. They bot feel that now is the right time right place. So is fate!!