my daughter met her daddy 1st time
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my daughter met her daddy 1st time
| Mon, 12-15-2008 - 11:47pm |
Uh, i need to vent and ask...
little background:
| Mon, 12-15-2008 - 11:47pm |
Uh, i need to vent and ask...
little background:
Hi Alabama and welcome,
Im not picking up on how long your realtionship was with him but I dont think that after being an absent parent in your daughters life for over a year makes him a quality man to pursue. Take it slow with his relationship with your daughter. You have a baby and your focus should be her well being. Please dont get me wrong in a perfect world every child would have a fantastic relationship with their parents and we would all live happily ever after, but im afraid its not the case. Im curious, are your really wanting him in your lives because its the holidays and you are lonely? Its very hard I know, believe been there as im sure youll find all of the moms on here (and dads) have had their share of lonely what-if holidays but there are better ones ahead...I promise! Focus on you and your holiday with your daughter, dont make it about what he can bring to the table for you both...your table has been empty for a while and if he really wanted to he would have brought things to it in the past year. Hang in there and focus on your daughter for now, at least until after the holidays pass and you are thinking a little clearer.
Best of luck,
M
Sweetheart, concentrate on your daughter, not him.