not dating anyone else!!

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not dating anyone else!!
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Tue, 12-16-2008 - 4:53am

okay .. MM and i finally talked about exclusive. my instincts have been spot on... so tonight after watching our show and nakie time... we were lying in bed and i thought... hmm, it's time to bring it up and know where i stand.


so i said, um.. we've been seeing alot of each other. pause as i got up the nerve and thought of the best way to say it... so i then i said, well, i'm not seeing anyone else. And, phew, he said, neither am i. He went on to say, he hasn't been seeing anyone else for a while now. (prob since halloween). So i gather, after he made up his mind, and prior to us sleeping together, he decided to pay all his attention to me. Which is what my instincts were telling me all along. So, i told him, that at some point i just didn't have the interest to date others anymore. And he said he felt the same. YAY!


then he was kinda like, well ya could have just ask me sooner.... so that's what he meant by "you can ask me anything" he said. he also said, it's better to ask then to worry about it. But i said, i wasn't worried. i've been listening to my gut. I had a good feeling we were on the same page. And i also said, that i'm glad we talked about it.


I also asked him if he was the jealous type... since there

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Registered: 03-19-2008
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 7:28am

Loony, I had a feeling things were going that way with you guys. Now that youre exclusive just make sure you stick around the boards and keep us informed.


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Tue, 12-16-2008 - 10:45am

Holy crap batman!!!!

 
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Tue, 12-16-2008 - 12:20pm
Ha ha ha.... yes i feel a bit relieved and relaxed today.... a little like i can untuck the shirt or let down my guard.
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Registered: 09-11-2007
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 1:01pm

See what happens when you take it nice and slow and don't over think things??!?!?!?!


Hooray for you!!!

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Registered: 03-25-2002
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 9:03pm

thanks for saying HE'S the lucky one... I feel like i really met a good guy this time. He's unlike most of the guys i've dated in the past. Feels great that i don't have to walk on egg shells. Moments when i was used to be accused ya know by the ex.. MM is not even worried about it.


I took a nap at dinner and dreamed about the ex.. which to me is a good sign that i'm getting past those old relationship hangups. it' like seeing the past and waving goodbye. Goodbye to the stinking thinking that the ex

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Wed, 12-17-2008 - 12:58pm

being jealous won't change anything (and only makes things worse).


OMG!!!!!!!!!!!

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Wed, 12-17-2008 - 3:19pm

"Which means, i can still be my same flirty self and he knows i only have eyes for him."


Hmm... I found that when I found a partner I was "into", I didn't FEEL like being flirty with others.


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Wed, 12-17-2008 - 3:34pm

I know I don't know you very well, but I just wanted to say congrats and I am very happy for you!! I love the new stuff.. it's so exciting!!!

(And I love how you call it nakie time)

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Wed, 12-17-2008 - 6:14pm
welcome to the board! "Nakie Time" is a pretty cool term that someone else on these boards made up.. it has stuck with us all since then. Yay, and i finally get to use it. =)
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Thu, 12-18-2008 - 4:29pm
Oh that's GREAT news Loony! I'm so happy for you :o) He's a lucky man.
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