Update on the options- advice please!

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Registered: 10-06-2008
Update on the options- advice please!
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Wed, 12-17-2008 - 8:59pm
This week has been a bit quieter than last week but still fun! I went Christmas shopping and met up with Hot Spot today for lunch. I think I like him, he is so easy to be around and to talk to. One of those guys that you feel you've known forever. With that said, he isn't quite "butterflies in the stomach" exciting... Of course we have only had daytime dates, maybe with a little moonlite thrown in things might perk up! He did give me a little kiss when we parted so I know there is interest on his part.We may see each other Friday night!
Now for the one that has taken me by surprise! Single cute dad of my student that I am mentoring called me Sunday night- (if you remember she has chosen the redecoration and remodeling of her bathroom as her Senior Project, I went to Atlanta with him last week to get tile)His tile guy canceled and he needed me to meet and describe lay out to another tiler. Was I available??? You betcha! So Monday I went by his office and we rode to his house. Again lots of chatter and fun banter. His Mom and Dad go to my church and Sunday she made a point of mentioning what a great time he had with me when we went to get tile- so I made the remark jokingly to him "I had so much fun, I'm hoping we need to go out of town to get the paint!!" He laughed and said no, he was getting it in town. OK- so I've let him know I liked spending time with him... do I just leave the ball in his court now? I think I may have those stomach cocoons forming.....

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Wed, 12-17-2008 - 9:34pm
Oooh, see the difference b/w the 1st date being "ok", & what you feel with Single Dad?

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Registered: 05-06-2008
Wed, 12-17-2008 - 9:56pm

ITA with Rebecca.

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Thu, 12-18-2008 - 11:32am

Ohhhh...

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Registered: 10-06-2008
Thu, 12-18-2008 - 11:49am
YIKES! I have to ask him?????? Girls!!!! Maybe you guys could come to NC and tell me what to say!!!! I could wear a wire and you could tell me in my ear piece! LOL. Seriously, why am I so confident about somethings and so backward about others!
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Registered: 08-28-2008
Thu, 12-18-2008 - 12:57pm

I'm hoping we need to go out of town to get the paint!!" He laughed and said no, he was getting it in town.


Slap that fool upside the head with LC's soft pink slipper! He obviously didn't "get it". LOL!!! I agree with others. No harm in asking him to get coffee or a drink or just chat it up with him some more. No harm no foul!!


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Registered: 10-06-2008
Thu, 12-18-2008 - 4:06pm
LOL- Yea, I thought that was a pretty clever line! He didn't dislike it....LOL I'll keep you posted. I'm supposed to go back to see the bathroom when it's finished and he knows I'm off on Mondays. So....plan of attack will be-
1)make appt. to check out the new bathroom
2) back him up against the new vanity
3) kiss him and.....
lunch! ;^)
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Registered: 11-06-2008
Thu, 12-18-2008 - 4:34pm

I will be there tomorrow!

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Registered: 10-06-2008
Thu, 12-18-2008 - 10:12pm
Where do you go around here? I'm about 1 hour southwest of Asheville email me and let me know- I'm curious!
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Registered: 11-09-2006
Fri, 12-19-2008 - 7:02am
Ohhh I am so excited for you! And I, too, agree with Rebecca!! Ask him out if he doesn't in due time. Good luck! I can't wait to hear what happens.
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Fri, 12-19-2008 - 9:03am

My parents split their time between Blowing Rock & Asheville.

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