Ladies , This Ones For Ya ?
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Ladies , This Ones For Ya ?
| Thu, 04-27-2006 - 12:31am |
Have you ever look at the same sex? Let me tell ya what happened to me .
I find myself looking at the same sex alot. I am married and I am unhappy to a degree, I am shy to the whole thing ,but at the same time I am not. Its really werid. I never realized until the other day just how beautiful women really are. I am not kiddin ya . I saw this lady the other day who was beautiful. I think that I am tired of guys becase I have always had bad relationships. She was a red head with long hair and tan skin, curvy body and nice other things as well. ( You get the pic.) so , what should I do? this is something that has really got me on the edge
I find myself looking at the same sex alot. I am married and I am unhappy to a degree, I am shy to the whole thing ,but at the same time I am not. Its really werid. I never realized until the other day just how beautiful women really are. I am not kiddin ya . I saw this lady the other day who was beautiful. I think that I am tired of guys becase I have always had bad relationships. She was a red head with long hair and tan skin, curvy body and nice other things as well. ( You get the pic.) so , what should I do? this is something that has really got me on the edge

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...well, I really do not know why it is but it does happen...curiosity perhaps?
Well, what do you want to do?
Sexuality is an aspect of ourselves that is always changing- sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly, but as we grow and evolve, our interests can change a bit too.
As far as looking at women, YES, I do. I've always been exceptionally shy about it too- I would never want to get caught looking at a woman's legs or whatever. I was always curious about being with a woman, but didn't act on it until last year. I have an incredibly beautiful girlfriend now, and this relationship has changed my life and my marriage.
But understand that my marriage was very sound to begin with- I was NOT unhappy to any degree before we got involved with her.
What concerns me about your situation is that your marriage is already unhappy, so you run the risk of hurting your marriage if you pursue this much further at this point. My advice to you would be to work on your marriage... figure out what is making you unhappy, and try to fix it. Talk to your husband and get him to talk to you... be partners in making your marriage happy. And if you guys end up wanting to explore women on the side, you can do so with a sound marital base. Or, if you are not willing or able to make your marriage more sound and secure, then end your marriage and move on. :-)
But yes, women are beautiful and soft and so.... yummmmm. My relationship with my girl is so intense though, that if my marriage were rocky at all to begin with, it would not have survived the first few months of having a girlfriend.
Hi Hailey,
Finding women attractive is one thing, but relationships and troubles are an entirely different thing.
yes you are right. But,I am here to tell ya nothing makes me squirm as much as seeing some sexy lady in plain veiw ,never hurts to do some wishful thinking. AFter all, IT helps me alot. But, I totally agree with ya on that. My hubby on the other hand is a differnt story. We love each other but I think I wanna do more in the bed than he wants and this is for certain. So I guess I will just keep on dreamin. I am glad to see you so happy though. That helps alot in a marriage.
hailey
Welcome to the board, Hailey.
He gets really offensive . He is totally againist it.
hailey
I am the same way about sexy pictures of women and stuff and I do have sex with my husband, I just don't enjoy it and I haven't for a while now . I have tired everthing in the book to help it but he is just not into making it better for the two of us, I am not gonna act on it but I think about it often and wonder if it is better than being so tense and stuff from not getting what I want out of bed.(Pleasure) It is really hard to understand I know. Sometimes,I don't understand myself. But, It is atleast worth thinking about I guess.
hailey
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