Ok - Question for the guys

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Registered: 04-27-2006
Ok - Question for the guys
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Fri, 04-28-2006 - 2:06pm
After taking Jazz's advice to put this out there for some feedback, lemme ask the guys here their opinion. I'd like to have my husband be a little more rough and adventerous with me. I am craving sex everyday and new kinky ideas are now torturing me. Problem is, I'm 8 months pregnant and I don't want to freak him out by asking for some of these things now. Would you be thrown off if sex crazed pregnant wife was begging to be tied up are taken roughly? help.
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Registered: 02-27-2006
Fri, 04-28-2006 - 2:25pm
Not at all, in fact GF and I had some of our best sex when she was late in her pregnancy. Her size prevented some positions but if she wasnt working or sleeping she wanted sex and I had no problem doing it in many different positions. If this is something of a new request from you he might be shocked a little at first but I doubt it will reall be an issue. Enjoy your time now because after the delivery there wont be as much free time.
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Fri, 04-28-2006 - 2:45pm
I for one would love it. I find women really sexy when they are expecting, and yes at eight months. A little caution would be needed for sure. My DW delivered our son 9 weeks early, but it had nothing to do with making love to her. I would have loved it if she had gone to term as he was our last child. Every thing ended up fine.
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Fri, 04-28-2006 - 6:44pm

We don't have any children but I think for myself (maybe a lot of guys) we'd be open to anything up until the point of labor beginning or the baby crowning. ;)

I say ask him now. Even if he hesitates, at least he'll know he'll have something to look forward to in another 2 months or so...

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Fri, 04-28-2006 - 11:42pm
Thank you guys - I think I am surprised by myself and just how horney I am right now. He tells me I was this bad with the last one, but I can't remember being this bad off. Talk about a role reversal - poor guy is practically raped every night. Ha!
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Sat, 04-29-2006 - 3:08pm

I was always afraid of hurting my DW or the baby when she was late in pregnancy, so I can't imagine trying anything rough or wild during that time. Also, he might be disappointed if your sexual appetite changes and you no longer crave the wild stuff after the pregnancy. I would wait to spring it on him. Just one guy's opinion, for what it's worth.

romanic

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Sat, 04-29-2006 - 3:35pm
From this man's viewpoint, GO FOR IT! Set your boundaries and enjoy it before the little blessing comes into this world.
Osusguy
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Sat, 04-29-2006 - 8:43pm
I think that is the root of his hesitation Romanic - and I can't say I blame him. It's cruel that women become so horney when it becomes so hard to have great sex. Especially when your breasts get larger and you're not even the one that really gets to enjoy them. Go figure.
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Sun, 04-30-2006 - 1:17am
DW wasn't allowed to have sex, orgasms or anything during her pregancies and she really craved it. As long as everything is safe and she wanted to...I would go for it!
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Sun, 04-30-2006 - 12:57pm
i am an advocate for being a straight shooter and asking for what you want.


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Sun, 04-30-2006 - 1:49pm
Thank you everyone for your suggestions!