Showering together

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Showering together
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Mon, 05-01-2006 - 5:18pm

How often do you and your SO shower together?

Is it always sexually related or is it a water-conservation effort?

When you are in the shower together, how much to you touch each other's body and are those touches always considered sexual in nature?

If there was NO chance it would lead to sex and given the choice, would you rather ALWAYS shower alone or ALWAYS shower with your SO?

I was just curious about others' experiences. My wife is a classic LL person, but yet we almost ALWAYS shower together every morning as we get ready for our day. It has become one of the few things that she does that even HINTS at being sexual...and it really confuses me more often than not. WHY does she continue to tease and torment me every morning by showering with me, but refuses to have sex at night or in the morning? In the morning she says she doesn't have time to fool around, and at night she's too tired or simply not in the mood.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 05-01-2006 - 6:01pm

Hi, overxed.

 

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Registered: 03-17-2006
Mon, 05-01-2006 - 9:49pm
On the weekends we usually shower togahter and it hardly lead to sex. Now when we take a bubble bath togather the fun usually starts in there and ends in bed!!
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Mon, 05-01-2006 - 10:21pm

Interesting on this and the reply posts. I hadn't thought so many folks showered together without it being sexual? OK, so there were only three posts so I'm overstating "so many".

There is no way I could do this with DW. If I get into the shower with her, I'm "horizontal" and would have to take care of business. She could shower with me every day (she likes me to wash her hair) with no touching or anything sexual but I couldn't. I'd end up "pleasuring myself" (enter DiVinyls song "I touch myself" here) in front of her and she'd probably just walk out of the shower.

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Registered: 04-11-2006
Tue, 05-02-2006 - 7:29am
My SO and I shower together almost everyday. It rarely leads to sex ( I havent figured that one out yet... My SO used to be the most sexually active man I think I have ever encountered) but its still very nice. When we first started showering together it was more of a kiss kiss, Hug hug type of deal. Now Since I work 2 jobs Its more of a conversation time for us and usually a little childish playing around like throwing water at one another lol... We both go to the tanning bed together everyother night when I get home from work and we always shower together about a hour after getting home to wash the tanning lotion off ourselves ( the stuff makes me smell like a coconut lol). Its nice but it could be better ;-)
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Registered: 08-12-2005
Tue, 05-02-2006 - 7:47am
My dh and I shower together occasionally...its not always a sexual thing..sometimes we just want to shower together. He has the same experience w/his gf.
Me and my bf have showered together a few times. It's never turned into anything sexual..though we do wash each other off and such....
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Registered: 09-16-2003
Tue, 05-02-2006 - 10:24am
we sometimes do before or after sex.


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Registered: 02-28-2006
Tue, 05-02-2006 - 7:27pm
We rarely shower together, as it would freak out our kids (well, at least the teenager), but when we do it almost always leads to sex.
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Wed, 05-03-2006 - 10:53am

That adds another question to this topic:

For those of us that DO shower with our partners on a regular basis, what do your children think about it? Do they know? I know many people will let their kids bathe or shower with them or with siblings when they are younger. Do your children ever shower with you or your spouse? How old do you think is too old for a child to shower with a parent?

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Registered: 09-16-2003
Wed, 05-03-2006 - 11:00am
our shower is in our bedroom, so no, the kids don't know, but I wouldn't especially mind if they did know, they're old enough to know mommy and daddy need alone time.


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Registered: 03-20-2006
Wed, 05-03-2006 - 11:03am

It's rare when we do, he likes his water hotter then I can stand. But when we do, it's quite nice. A lot of foreplay, or is that shower play goes on.

And how can you not be in the shower together and have touches not be sexual! LOL

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