Toys...first step

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Registered: 02-04-2005
Toys...first step
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Sun, 05-07-2006 - 5:23pm

OK, so I took the jump and bought DW a couple of toys. I mentioned them a few months ago to her and she actually said that might be interesting? One has arrived a few days back and shes already put it away in the drawer. Thats not a good sign is it? A friend told me I should tell her if she wanted to maybe play around with it on her own first maybe that would be best? I did and she said she'd let me know.

We got a free porn DVD with the purchase and that kinda got "put away" too?

Should I inquire as to "when" we might actually USE these or do I let her move at her own pace? Which I expect is the right way to go but it maybe months or a year before that happens. Don't want the batteries to corrode in them ya know. ;)

I ordered something for myself too and when it gets here I'm going to wear that thing out in a matter of minutes!!! ;)

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Registered: 09-16-2003
Sun, 05-07-2006 - 5:27pm

hrmmm....well, from what you've said about her, so doesn't sound very aggresive, so unless you suggest using them, you might nvere get to.



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Registered: 07-08-2004
Sun, 05-07-2006 - 5:59pm

I think during foreplay, I'd say something along the lines of, "Hey, do you want to take XYZ toy out and give it a try?" Just very nonchalantly.


BTW, what kind of toys did you get?