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| Tue, 05-09-2006 - 3:37pm |
It's been at least 3 years that I have had this fantasy of mine. It's not a fantasy that I will act on, because I am not an uninhibited type of person. I can't even imagine what would happen if I were to act on this.
I have had a crush on one of my employees. He's more of a friend. He quit last December, which was a huge relief. Yet we still talk. Nothing ever taboo - but I get the feeling he enjoys it as much as I do. I could be totally off my rocker, but I wish it.

No, your not crazy your infatuated....we've all been there....
There is this "Thing" we get from different people that kinda hooks us...We all have it at times and are curious about different things...some people are just curious if someone is good in bed, others are curious to know what someone would be like as a BF/GF...I dont think there is anything wrong with you, unless me thinking there is nothing wrong with you means there is something wrong with me...heehee...(-;
I've been with my GF for 2 yrs and there is a still a guy that I do the "What if's" with...we too worked together and I never got up the courage to tell him I had a crush on him...we hung out as friends alot so we got to know each other very well but he had a GF and I never crossed the line...today I regret that because if I had maybe I wouldnt have the "what if's"...I think knowing that he wouldn't cheat on his GF made me like him even more...strange huh!?! Like the you always want what you can't have syndrome...luckily being bi gives me the best of both worlds but still I wonder from time to time if I had done this would things be different, hell I even dream about him occasionally, but it doesnt mean I love my GF any less....I adore her but the thoughts of him still bring butterflies to my tummy, it's just something about him...
~Tori
"He's 7 years younger than I am, and I will be 35 this year. Isn't that crazy? I mean he's so young!"
The age difference isn't crazy to me, at all!
Hi, RBH.
I agree with, Talbed; focus on the spark that this feeling gives you and let it fuel you.
When I feel like this about someone it reminds me that I'm a vibrant, sexual and sensual person and I feel alive. Focus on the passion and excitment that you're feeling...this is a great way to get in touch with yourself. You have those feelings in you and you need to celebrate them.
You don't need to express or act on your feelings with the person who inspires them; just enjoy it and let the feelings inspire you in your home life with your DH/family.
sweetmamat
I don't think the age difference is crazy at all. I think it's all in the person..and age shouldn't be a factor.
I also don't think you are crazy. It is perfectly normal to fantasize and have these feelings..after all you can't control how you feel..its not a light switch you can turn on and off.
Sometimes I think when you've been married awhile and in the same pattern in your life everyday always...things even when they are great can be "boring" and this fantasy spices things up in your life.
I wouldn't worry too much about it. I'm sure your other employees haven't noticed...You probably think it's obvious because you know how you feel.
You all are so fantastic!
Tori: