Give Him a Hand?

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Registered: 09-16-2003
Give Him a Hand?
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Wed, 05-10-2006 - 10:36am

Did any of you read this one?



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Registered: 03-11-2006
Wed, 05-10-2006 - 11:01am
I have to admit, a handjob is my least favourite act. I use it while doing a bj but to do just that on it's own. Not my cup of tea. Isn't that why we started doing oral? lol, i'm kidding. Nobody jump down my throat for that one!

 

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Registered: 09-16-2003
Wed, 05-10-2006 - 11:06am
interesting.


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Registered: 03-17-2006
Wed, 05-10-2006 - 11:11am

DW likes to give a handjob from time to time...if she happens to wake up before me she will wake me up with one.

Never had an issue with lubrication or not being able to get off either!

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Wed, 05-10-2006 - 1:16pm

Dh loves to be handled but it's been a very long time since he got just a hand job and finished that way.

 

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Registered: 03-17-2006
Wed, 05-10-2006 - 1:24pm

>>>Holding it between finger and thumb like it's made of spun glass isn't sexy ‑- it makes him think you don't really want to touch it. <<<

Guys, do you agree with that?

If that's all there is..then yes I would think they were uncomforable with what they were doing and that would be a turn off.

But if it's done as a variation during....and done softly....that's another thing all together.

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Registered: 11-22-2004
Wed, 05-10-2006 - 2:09pm
Holding between finger and thumb? That must be a pretty dainty penis. My fingers don't touch when my hand is around my bf's. It's not like the stem of a wine glass f'chrissakes!!!
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Registered: 02-28-2006
Wed, 05-10-2006 - 2:38pm
Guys, do you agree with that?

Yes, grab a hold of it like you mean it.

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Registered: 07-06-2004
Wed, 05-10-2006 - 3:12pm

The light touch referred to is fine if it's exploratory, or to push more lube up the vein. It's like a vagina turned inside out; most nerve endings are within an inch or so from the opening, so concentrate on the head. Shaft feels less, but loves surrounding pressure. A great HJ simulates the sensation a vagina provides, and the organ will react accordingly. LOL.

A lot of women either ignore, or don't have a clue what to do with the things hanging in the sac. They are not made of glass and swing and slap alot during IC. Hold them or explore them as their owner will give you feedback. When jerking the shaft skin up and down, do NOT yank down already tight skin. It's likely to tear skin attached below the head and cause the owner pain.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Wed, 05-10-2006 - 5:13pm

>>>the things hanging in the sac. They are not made of glass and swing<<<


That's good to know.

 

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Registered: 06-27-2005
Wed, 05-10-2006 - 5:32pm
Okay, I read the article real quick. I agree, I like to be handled and made over just as much as you gals. Hold my shaft, stroke it, vary speed and pressure. Fondle my sack, they won't break, rub the spot between them and my anus. The thights and don't forget my nipples, I love them fondled, licked, kissed and played with. If you slide in your finger and hit my "G" spot look out, you can do it to get me going or if I am ready to release the you will add to it.

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