You can make as much noise as you like in a hotel room and you never have to wonder if your neighbors heard you. Besides, if the guy in the next room can hear you who cares - you'll never have to see them again.
Not to mention, for me at least, there are no kids in a hotel room as opposed to at home... ;-)
Me...I am no different regardless of my surroundings. DW...night and day. And it has nothing to do with kids, neighbors, ets (kids are at grandparent's at least one weekend a month and I live in a house...I would hope neighbors can't hear...I would need a blow horn for that!) It has everything to do with anonymity...from herself. She can be someone else...a fantasy her and leave it all there when she comes home to be her 'true' self. Great sex gets expensive that way!
Like I said in the "helping hand" thread you spun this off, a hotel room gives you anonymity (who cares if you get noisy?), gets you away from kids/pets/chores/... so you can focus on one another. And there's probably something about walking into a room whose main feature is a nice big bed :-). When DW and I have a 'getaway weekend' we can go out for a nice sit-down dinner somewhere without having to worry about what/whether the kids will eat, can pick up a bottle of wine to take back, then go back to the room and not worry about dishes, laundry, whatever and just enjoy one another however the mood strikes us. What's to not like?
I think you will agree Maggie that a hotel room should not be the only place the burners should get set to high..especially if it only happens but once, maybe twice a year? That 'escape' is the route to great sex only?
Among everything else, laundry, laundry, laundry, someone else does the laundry! Sheets, towels, someone else scoops it up, carries it off, brings nice clean sheets and towels, makes the bed, well, if you ever leave the room, that is. Ooohhhh, how nice!
Things? Well, not a 'taboo' issue. And it is becoming very quickly only one person's issue...and not mine! But I have some great friends and that has been my very bright spot lately!!
You can make as much noise as you like in a hotel room and you never have to wonder if your neighbors heard you. Besides, if the guy in the next room can hear you who cares - you'll never have to see them again.
Not to mention, for me at least, there are no kids in a hotel room as opposed to at home... ;-)
DW...night and day.
And it has nothing to do with kids, neighbors, ets (kids are at grandparent's at least one weekend a month and I live in a house...I would hope neighbors can't hear...I would need a blow horn for that!)
It has everything to do with anonymity...from herself. She can be someone else...a fantasy her and leave it all there when she comes home to be her 'true' self.
Great sex gets expensive that way!
I can be like that at times.
My husband and I are both like this.
Talbed, I definitely would agree with that!
I've had some uninhibited moments in hotels, but in general, I think I'm more inhibited in a hotel than at home.