Porn is leaving me limp...

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Registered: 03-02-2006
Porn is leaving me limp...
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Thu, 05-11-2006 - 8:39pm

...so to speak. I am female, so I'm not exactly "limp," but I hope you get the idea.

I have a few DVD's now, and I watch them to try to get in the mood sometimes. But lots of times, I find them more distracting than anything else. Between the huge, fake breasts, the fake orgasms, and the facials, I really end up feeling kinda grossed out.

Anyone else know what I mean?

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 05-11-2006 - 9:52pm

Welcome to the board, mrr45.

 

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Registered: 12-19-2002
Thu, 05-11-2006 - 10:12pm

Hi!

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Registered: 03-02-2006
Thu, 05-11-2006 - 10:28pm

Hi, thanks for the suggestions. We have a few of the Better Sex series and I like them too. Sometimes they're not quite what I'm looking for because of the voiceovers giving instruction. I do like that they're real people who seem to be genuinely enjoying themselves.

I guess I am looking for more of the "real" aspect, which is much hotter to me. I will have to try the Nina Hartley videos. I just like a video sometimes, because I like the visual and audio experience. I like erotica, but sometimes it just gets too difficult to keep hold of a book when things are hot and heavy, you know? lol

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Registered: 02-04-2005
Thu, 05-11-2006 - 11:39pm

Well, being a guy, I pretty much like any kind of porn although you are right some is kinda bad.

However, DW and I don't watch it (never have even tried) so I'm not a good point of reference. Shes not into it.

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Registered: 03-21-2006
Fri, 05-12-2006 - 5:18am
Hi, I don't use porn for exactly that reason. Its not that i'm prudish - I absolutely love to read erotica, that really turns me on, I find it more realistic.
I also enjoy watching films like Basic Instinct, Last Tango in Paris etc which are really sexy. For me anyway!
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Registered: 09-16-2003
Fri, 05-12-2006 - 9:34am

Sometimes the hideous makeup and awful hair are so distracting I think, "Can't they afford a professional for hair and makeup at these sets?"



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Registered: 05-28-2003
Fri, 05-12-2006 - 10:01am
I agree. I rarely watch porn anymore (I've pretty much seen everything I need to see, and I'm more likely now to be aroused by the swimsuit models in the Land's End catalogue), but when I do, I'm not thinking so much about sex as I am, what was going through these people's heads when they were doing this? There's a strangeness to it that fascinates me, but it doesn't really turn me on. But I would suggest to mrr45 that she try to find some European stuff. The actors are more natural, and if you pick a flick that's in a language you don't speak, you're spared the stupidity of the dialogue--it just all sounds funny.
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Fri, 05-12-2006 - 10:14am
when I was in Germany I watched a great one, very Dadaist.


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Registered: 05-28-2003
Fri, 05-12-2006 - 10:35am
Har! I actually had German porn in mind. Sounds a little like an oxymoron, but they strike me as having a much more adult attitude, and more fun besides. Americans (we men, at least) seem to remain perpetually 15.
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Fri, 05-12-2006 - 10:43am
i kind of agree....and sometimes I think I am 15 too.


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