Figured I would check it out

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Registered: 05-19-2006
Figured I would check it out
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Fri, 05-19-2006 - 2:13pm

Well I have been searching for a decent message board where sex is discussed, and ran across this place, figured I would try it out. I might not fit here, I don't find much that is taboo regarding sex. I have one thing, I know I wont' try and that is scat..but everything else, pretty much up for, and have probably done. I am happily married bisexual woman. I share women with my husband, he shares men with me. My list of kinks is longer that what is probably normally. I am very sexual. If not having sex, probably masturbating..really into porn, and I think everyone should enjoy it. So will see what this board has to offer.

kinkybigirl

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Registered: 04-21-2006
Fri, 05-19-2006 - 3:08pm
OMG I think it's freaking incredible that you and your husband have this quasi open relationship where you can share other people! I'm super jealous. The first and last time I brought up to my BF that I wanted to have a 3some (2 guys and me that is) he was against it..most men would be I guess. dang. DP is one of my favorite fantasies, and one that I really want to fulfill soon, and the only way I will is if I do it on the DL.
I'm like you too, very open to new experiences (no scat, no golden showers) everything else I'm pretty much game. You're so lucky you have a husband who is like you. dang, now I'm really jealous.
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Fri, 05-19-2006 - 3:18pm
hey, you sound like me! :)


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Fri, 05-19-2006 - 3:24pm

I was surprised the first time he let me bring a guy home. We were out with friends, he was a friend of a friend, and hubby could see I was attrached to him..told me to bring him home if I wanted to. I have to say each time we swing, or whatever you want to call it, it brings us so much closer to each other. It is not for everyone. And before anything is done, both really need to be strong in the relationship. I think for us, we know there is a huge differnce between love and sex. Too many people seem to confuse the two issues..and they aren't the same.

If I had it my way we would have a permanent third in our relationship, another woman, another "wife". Hubby can hardly keep up with me, so I know it is out of the guestion.

For me, since I discovered sex, at an early age, nothing has really been out of the guestion. When I met hubby, I was leaving a marriage, where sex was just horrible, and I swore to myself that would never happen again, as sex is way too important to me. I needed it to be that way with whoever I ended up with.

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Fri, 05-19-2006 - 3:32pm
Not at this time. We just moved not too long ago to a new state so don't know all that many people yet, but working on it :)
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Fri, 05-19-2006 - 3:41pm
wow you have to be really together to make sure you are getting what you want out of sex. I agree with you, sex is different than love. BF doesn't understand. so frustrating. right now I'm actually having an affair (no sex, just naughty emails, and some fulling around) but I want to pounce on him so bad. I only have sex with BF maybe once a week. It's ok, nothing mind blowing, well, only fabulous when I've had a bit to drink and I'm the mood for some serious f**k. otherwise it's pretty average. In the past I very much enjoyed sex but now it's kind of temperate b/c of BF. :-(
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Registered: 05-15-2006
Fri, 05-19-2006 - 3:42pm
Welcum! I think this is the board for you.
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Fri, 05-19-2006 - 3:47pm
Have you sat down with him to discuss what is going on? Does he know you need it more than once a week? Does he know you need it a bit differnt than it is being done? A great way to get across what you need and want, is to write an erotic story, then present it to him. In the story put your fantasies, you desires. You don't have to flat out say that this is what you want, but most will figure it out.
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Fri, 05-19-2006 - 3:48pm
We will see :) I am not really liking the way the board is set up, but I am not going to pay money to have it work any other way.
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Fri, 05-19-2006 - 3:53pm
The best thing about this board is the people here (as opposed to the set up).
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Fri, 05-19-2006 - 3:55pm
Yes, but I am finding how it works frustrating, and that will keep me away. lol

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