Reserved with a taste o' dirty?

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Reserved with a taste o' dirty?
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Mon, 05-22-2006 - 7:00pm

I'm hoping to get your opinion...

I believe that everyone has *their* own taste (not literally), flavor, style, etc... a way of dressing that works for them.

My gf has all these slinky, sexy bedtime clothes that fit her perfectly and just look HOT as HELL... and I think she is stunning in them (and out of them, hubba hubba). Then me... I'm a small person, close to my ideal weight, so big concerns about my body's appearance are not to blame.

But I just don't feel comfortable wearing that stuff! I have no idea why. I'd rather wear something cottony and light... summer pajamas... maybe no panties... but nothing silky and lacy. I'd rather wear something that looks "normal" (i.e., I can wear it in front of the kids) but with a secret, like an extra button undone discreetly or no undies or whatever...

What's your preference? Do you like the lingerie, lacy stuff, garters, etc? Or do you prefer more casual clothing with a subtle dirty twist?


"In Civilization and Its Discontents, Freud argued that civilization is founded on the repression of instincts. It now seems clear that one of those instincts leads us away from monogamy. Whether we choose to follow, on the other hand, is up to us."
-Dr. David P. Barash and Dr. Judith Eve Lipton,
"The Myth of Monogamy"

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Registered: 05-19-2006
Mon, 05-22-2006 - 7:07pm
I am not really into lace or lingerie..but luckily neither is hubby. I would rather be in a pair of his boxers or tightie whiteies with a nice tight tank top on, or a flirty little p.j. set. If I put on something lacy, I just don't feel like myself.
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Mon, 05-22-2006 - 7:52pm
I'm a bumbling fool who wears his John Deere cap to gay bars. But then I sit here and pant over your siggy and LM's. Go figure! :)
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Mon, 05-22-2006 - 8:10pm

ROFLMAO!!!!!!

Hmmmm.... y'know, John Deere makes ridin' mowers... you like ridin'??

Edited to say: No, wait! I know, I know!!! There are probably better places to refer to ridin' machinery than in a gay bar. Sigh. Lord, I just sound stupid.


"In Civilization and Its Discontents, Freud argued that civilization is founded on the repression of instincts. It now seems clear that one of those instincts leads us away from monogamy. Whether we choose to follow, on the other hand, is up to us."
-Dr. David P. Barash and Dr. Judith Eve Lipton,
"The Myth of Monogamy"




Edited 5/22/2006 8:48 pm ET by naughtygirl23

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Mon, 05-22-2006 - 8:53pm
I'm a casual girl through and through whether it be day or night. I have special occasion wear which are reserved for just that. And like you said, I have children and have to walk around in front of them. My son's eyes are wondering these days so discretion is best at this very moment. Maybe I'll change in a few years, but I seriously doubt it.

 

 

 

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Mon, 05-22-2006 - 8:59pm
I actually do own a John Deere tractor, and yes, I do like ridin', but it's a silly thing to say! :)
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Mon, 05-22-2006 - 9:32pm

Oh dear...

Looks like I edited my post too late. :-P


"In Civilization and Its Discontents, Freud argued that civilization is founded on the repression of instincts. It now seems clear that one of those instincts leads us away from monogamy. Whether we choose to follow, on the other hand, is up to us."
-Dr. David P. Barash and Dr. Judith Eve Lipton,
"The Myth of Monogamy"

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Mon, 05-22-2006 - 10:32pm
Hee!
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Tue, 05-23-2006 - 8:06am
I wear pretty lacy, silkies....and I wear just a t shirt and panties.


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Tue, 05-23-2006 - 10:28am
Oh, goodness! I just realized my last post on this thread could've sounded like I was calling you silly. Sorry about that. I was definitely talking about me! :)
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Tue, 05-23-2006 - 11:27am

I like lacy lingerie for special occasions, as a treat for dh, once a week at most.

 

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