trying something new

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Registered: 05-24-2006
trying something new
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Wed, 05-24-2006 - 12:47pm
my dh lately has been inserting several fingers inside me much to my enjoyment. how do we work up to him fisting me? thanks for the help
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Registered: 04-21-2006
Wed, 05-24-2006 - 1:20pm
hi there. The two times BF and I tried fisting, it was 1/2 pain 1/2 pleasure. I must say that vaginally it was much harder, prob b/c of the pelvic bone. While on the back side it was a little easier. When I did it, I was really turned on (had purchased a dvd that contained a scene on this - vaginal however), so I was very "open" to the experience.
So, my suggestion, first: be very turned on/wet/excited (it will help you loosen up); two make sure you use plenty of lube but not too much that it becomes slippery or sticky (depending on the kind you use); three: RELAX; four: have him go really slowly.
How I saw it in the video, the guy begun with inserting one finger at a time. then he tucked his thumb inside his palm. he also rotated his wrists while slowly going in little by little.
Although it's a bit painful, it's also very hot. And I'm sure with time, you'll be able to get more and more relaxed until he is able to get his whole hand in.
good luck..and now you've reminded me that I need to try it again myself!
M-S
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Wed, 05-24-2006 - 1:45pm

Welcome to the board, busymomandwife.

 

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Wed, 05-24-2006 - 3:27pm
I love the experience of fisting and partake it is as often the opportunity arises. I agree w/the suggestions that M-S gave and can only reiterate to take your time, relax and focus on enjoying the process moreso than the end result. If you focus more on the pleasure you will most likely achieve fisting. I can tell you that once you have worked your way up to 4 fingers that the use of a twisting motion will help to stretch and relax your muscles so that the hand is more easily able to slip in. Hope this helps!

 

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Registered: 04-21-2006
Wed, 05-24-2006 - 9:05pm
I have experienced it twice. I was not expecting it. All he said was to relax. He did it all in one night. In other words, we did not work up to it.
He started slowly with one, then two fingers and so on. At the same time, he was turning his hand clockwise and then counterclockwise. The feeling was amazing!...before I knew it, his had was entirely inside. I did not feel any pain at all. After he was done and I had the most amazing orgasms, he took his hand out slowly and began to make love to me. For him, he said that making love after, gave him a great feeling, but I have to say that for me I was not able to feel him as well. In general it was an amazing experience.
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Registered: 09-16-2003
Thu, 05-25-2006 - 8:00am
we do this a lot, the first time we did I think I slipped into another dimetion, is was that good.


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Registered: 04-21-2006
Thu, 05-25-2006 - 1:16pm
Hmm great idea littlemascara!! gosh dang it..now I'm excited.
M-S
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Thu, 05-25-2006 - 1:22pm
glad I could help!