Fisting spoiling intercourse?

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Fisting spoiling intercourse?
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Thu, 05-25-2006 - 3:57am

Hi Everyone

I have read numerous posts on how incredible fisting is (vaginal mostly,but anal too).
I have not done this as I have some concerns. My main concern centres around fisting stretching the vagina to the point where is spoils the pleasure for the couple during sex. The guy will hav less pressure on his member in the stretched vagina, (very much like after child birth) and second, the female would not really enjoy a penis in her, as she has had a much bigger object penetrate her.

Any comments from fisters and non- fisters out there??

Would a woman being fisted be referred to as a fistee lol

Sammy

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Thu, 05-25-2006 - 7:33am
we do this regularly, and it hasn't been a problem. :)


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Thu, 05-25-2006 - 8:16am

Thanks for the feedback. How many fingers max have you had in your vagina? Do you want to get more or somthing bigger in there, or have you maxxed out?

Also, do you enjoy being fisted anally as well? Do you think the same would apply in terms of retracting to normal size afterwards?

Sammy

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Thu, 05-25-2006 - 8:52am
I've taken his whole hand, we did last night, and then we had IC, and he definitely had no problem getting off.


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Thu, 05-25-2006 - 9:08am

Thanks for the reply. Who may i ask is Robert Mapplethorpe and what made you think of him?
Do you enjoy fisting yourself, or have you not tried it?

Also, i hav seen porn where gals comfortably take 8 fingers in their anus. (4 from each hand). But when the actress pull her cheeks open, her anus seems to naturally gape. Is this normal. Has anyone seen this, or does this happen to anyones SO?

Sammy

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Thu, 05-25-2006 - 9:31am

I amybe could have done it myself while I was practicing Yoga, but I am not so flexible now!



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Thu, 05-25-2006 - 9:40am

>>Also, i hav seen porn where gals comfortably take 8 fingers in their anus. (4 from each hand). But when the actress pull her cheeks open, her anus seems to naturally gape. Is this normal.

Those muscles take some work to get stretched out, they also need a little time to recover, but they do, or these women would be in Depends the rest of their life...

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Thu, 05-25-2006 - 9:50am


I googled it and had a look at some of his works. They were brilliant. You right,they very tastfully done. I loved his tulip picture, but the nude male, n the females one were great too.

Thanks
Sammy

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Thu, 05-25-2006 - 9:56am
Thanks for the comments. Have you hand any experience in this,, either on yourself or on ur SO??
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Thu, 05-25-2006 - 10:09am
he has a whole series of flowers, there's a cala lilly that's gorgeous.


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Thu, 05-25-2006 - 1:23pm
Just a little stretching after trying a toy back there, quickly back to normal.

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